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Does Facebook make you jealous?


Jealousy on Facebook

A study on whether Facebook makes you jealous, titled "More Information than You Ever Wanted: Does Facebook Bring Out the Green-Eyed Monster of Jealousy?" has just come out. 

I've been thinking a lot about social apps and the way they change your relationship with people.  There have been people I would not really have talked to very long in person, that on Facebook seem fascinating.  On the other hand people that are interesting in person bore you on Twitter with "I am going to the bathroom" variety of tweets.  There are Facebook love stories, Twitter breakups, and Twitter stars.  What I have been wondering about is - do social apps change the relationship you would have normally had?

The study addresses one part of this conundrum, which is does Facebook make you more jealous than you normally would have been?  The study conducted by Amy Muise, Emily Christofides, and Serge Desmarais at University of Guelph using 308 undergraduate Facebook users  "revealed that increased Facebook use significantly predicts Facebook-related jealousy. We argue that this effect may be the result of a feedback loop whereby using Facebook exposes people to often ambiguous information about their partner that they may not otherwise have access to and that this new information incites further Facebook use. Our study provides evidence of Facebook’s unique  contributions to the experience of jealousy in romantic relationships".

This is certainly believable.  Very often Facebook (or Twitter) gives you only limited information, and if you misinterpret it, it could make you jealous.  For instance the recent exchange between Serena and Andy Roddick, while obviously playful, could also be misinterpreted, as Twitter is only a very shortened view of reality.  Then again, perhaps Facebook brings out the person that you really are, and just helps people express themselves in a way that they couldn't have, before Facebook came along.  

The open nature of Facebook gives people access to information about their partner that would not otherwise be accessible. As one participant reported, ‘‘It turns people into nosey parkers…all of that personal information is totally unnecessary, but no one can help themselves.’’ Moreover, the information listed on one’s Facebook page may be interpreted in a variety of ways given its frequent lack of context. As some participants explained, ‘‘I have enough confidence in her [his partner] to know my partner is faithful, yet I can’t help but second-guess myself when someone posts on her wall.…It can contribute to feelings of you not really ‘knowing’ your partner.’’ Ambiguous scenes involving a partner and contact with past romantic and sexual partners are among the common triggers of jealousy in romantic relationships, and these ambiguous scenes are a regular occurrence on Facebook. Real or imagined negative situations invoke feelings of jealousy, and participants felt the Facebook environment created these feelings and enhanced concerns about the quality of their relationship. As one participant noted, ‘‘It definitely invokes a false sense of jealousy.’’ Another participant explained that ‘‘I was already a bit jealous and insecure, but I think that Facebook has definitely made me much much much worse."

Full paper  here (pdf file).

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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  • Jhilmil Breckenridge 2 years ago
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    Facebook definitely changes relationships... and maybe inspires jealousy too.
    Like someone whose random status updates get a lot of comments, or how someone else's lives always seem so interesting viewed through "facebook" goggles! Well said, Tanya!

  • Ahmed Fouad 2 years ago
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    Great article, great point of view.

  • Chris Champion 2 years ago
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    Excellent article. As I said in a blog post of my own (blog.salientpoint.com.au), in which I pointed to your post, this is a much more reasonable take than the recent comments of Archbishop Vincent Nichols, the British Catholic leader who claimed social media was a "key factor" in teenage suicide.

  • Urmi Manzur 2 years ago
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    yes Facebook change relationship.

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