Does the phrase 'timing is everything' sound familiar?
In the world of tantric sex, is there a time for the “quickie?" According to Susie Heumann, founder of Tantra.com, there is. You probably have experienced having a quickie sex date and maybe it was hot and exciting for you both, or maybe just great for him but not for you. Since we know that women often take longer to warm up sexually, can a woman truly enjoy a quick ‘romp in the hay’ and feel satisfied? Well, she can now with the Tantric Quickie.
The word "quickie" implies that there is also a longer version, and of course there is. Tantric lovemaking is generally a more relaxed and languorous affair, with deep fulfillment for both partners. You and your beloved sharing several hours with each other in sensual delight and spiritual communion.
As a couple gets more involved in the practices of breath, focus, and sustaining the high states of arousal an interesting thing happens - they both get much quicker at achieving the high states of arousal. (Susie Heumann)
So the practice becomes setting aside time for both longer lovemaking sessions and shorter sweet ones as well. Ten or fifteen minutes will do. You can enjoy both and allow both to feed each other with expanding states of pleasure, intimacy and connection.
The following are some suggestions of Susie’sfor having delicious “tantric quickies”.
According to Susie the benefits of a Tantric Quickie is to:
- Heighten your sexual energy
- Get practice at being "ready" almost immediately (especially for women)
- Train men to last longer and feel their sexual energy without expending it, learning to not ejaculate every time but rather to re-circulate their sexual energy.
- Fuel a heightened sexual tension between the two of you
- Quickly increase the level of intimacy between the two of you.
- Help raise testosterone levels in women and men who are getting a little older
Having sex in the morning has always been a favorite of mine and a lot better than coffee. Great sex can give you a glow that radiates out to all and give you a bounce in your step. It will bring you closer together and you will probably think of each other more often throughout your day. It make take a few weeks for you to fully feel the result but give it a whirl and see what happens.
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