Stability is key to successful single-parent home
Stable is the key word. The advantage that children get from living in two-parent families may actually be due to family stability more than the fact that their parents are married. A new study finds that children who are born and grow up in stable single-parent homes generally do as well as those in married households in terms of academic abilities and behavior problems.
Supported in part by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development, the study appears as a chapter in the new book Marriage and Family: Perspectives and Complexities (Columbia University Press).
What key elements exemplify a stable home?
• Create a routine that works for you and your children.
• Be consistent regarding expectations and discipline.
• Establish traditions and make memories.
• Do not worry your children with financial issues.
• Teach your values by living them.
• Model, explain and teach your children how to communicate.
• Teach them how to forgive. When you hurt your children, say, “I’m sorry I was wrong. Will you forgive me?”
• Surround yourself with healthy, positive people.
• Show love and tell your child you love them every day.
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