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Stumped for a Christmas gift? Need to find that last minute stocking stuffer? Think about a vibrator for that special woman in your life (and ladies, it’s okay to hint).

But what to get?

The best bet is a nice quality clitoral vibrator. These vibrators can be used during foreplay and of course during sex as well, because no matter what the average guy might think vaginal penetration alone is rarely sufficient stimulation to achieve orgasm. And of course, these vibrators can also be used in private.

There are also phallic shaped vibrators, some with curves and ridges designed for G-spot stimulation. The problem with choosing one of these vibrators is that the shape has to be just right and the curves in the right spot. As fit is such a personal thing you may end up selecting one that is not quite right.

If you have never used a vibrator during sex many people recommend playing a little music so you do not focus on the buzzing, so adding a mood enhancing CD to the stocking would also be a nice touch. However, with a high quality product, such as a Lelo, noise is rarely an issue.

Neither partner should be embarrassed about introducing a vibrator. It does not imply that you are dissatisfied with your sex life, just that you want to try new possibilities. Remember, when you go to an ice cream parlor sometimes you want to sample a new flavor.

Where can you get a vibrator on short notice? Good Vibrations has stores at 1620 Polk and 603 Valencia in San Francisco and at 2504 San Pablo Avenue in Berkley.

And have a happy Christmas!

Remember, this column does not represent individual medical advice