Cougars are famous for being gorgeous and sexy women in their 40's and 50's. Now a new category is emerging: The Puma. The Puma is a woman in her 30's who takes good care of herself and presents an interesting, confident image to the world coming from her own self-assurance deep inside. She may attract many men younger than herself. But she knows it's not about age, it's about happiness and inner joy.
As one man put it: "I love women over 30 — because they have realized at that point, like I have, that relationships aren't perfect. I think a lot of younger women are constantly attempting to create their lives and relationships after some ideal. They can get clingy and needy because you are not falling into line with what they think they want."
Another says, "I've been attracted to older women in the past when they made no apologies about their age. They didn't try to look or act any younger than they felt. There's something beautiful about that — about being at ease with yourself and the world. And laugh-lines can be sexy. Looking like you've lived and laughed and know something about the world is appealing to me."
One man put it this way, "Women in their 30's are less likely to have rules about what men should and shouldn't do. They know that relationships involve compromises, mutual respect, and equal power. Younger women don't understand that stuff, in general, as well as women in their later 20s and 30s do."
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That's what I've been saying. I like the woman who is a little "older." She doesn't expect the big, splashy wedding. She knows how to control her emotions more. She's lived through more and has more experience in bed too.
It's good to know that men are not as shallow as they seem on TV. In real life they appreciate someone like me, who has gone through a lot and survived. I wouldn't trade all my experience to go back in time and be younger. Life is easier for me now in some ways, because I understand about it through the lessons I've learned.
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from very beging i like old age woman to make frind ship and and love to her becouse she is haveing epriance for sex and she can control and teach how to make sex ,infact of 25 30s age girl dosent like sex hard she always affared .so i want to know more about sex and want any 40s womwn to have sex with me
azhar is totally right--because when I was in my twenties I didn't know half of what I know now about my own body. And now I love to teach the younger men. They appreciate it so much.
even when iwas a young dude i always liked my big sisters friends & they were good to me too--i dont like no little drama mamas!!!!
Cougars women are the greatest in and out of bed - that's all I can say about that.
I'm in my 50s now and have had lots of women. Ironically when I was 27 I had my biggest dispersion of age differences in my lovers. I had an 18yr old and a 47yr old. In truth the 18yr old edged out the 47yr old in bedroom performance. However my 47 yr old was a WHOLE LOT LESS DRAMA. So my overall well being was better off with the 47yr old.
whoops sorry. re my last post the older woman was actually 42.
If you want to marry, pick a woman in her 20's. Most attractive single women in their 30's who have never been married don't really want to get married. I've seen it so many times. There are going to be plenty of single Asian women in their 40's soon. If she is single and in her 30's, don't expect a long term relationship. She has over a decade worth of guys she has dated and had sex with that she can dial up. FYI.
I'm in my 30's and i have dated younger men,the youngest being 21 .I enjoy the time we spend together but get tired of people asking if he is my little brother.But I do enjoy the sex and teaching him it's time to enjoy ,not to rush.
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