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Sex 101: What is a sexual fetish or paraphilia?

A fetish is a sexual attraction to an object or body part. This attraction can become so strong that it is required to be present or at least visualized for a person to get sexual satisfaction. A paraphilia is a medical term used to describe certain fetishes that become problematic to the person with the fetish or people they are involved with. Usually this becomes a problem when the sexual arousal for an object or body part is not mainstream.  Fetishes or paraphilias differ from fantasies in that most fantasies are mental visualizations or parts of stories.  For more on fantasies click here

 
Fetishes can be healthy if all parties involved are consenting to the actions played out. Fetishes can be looked at as taking sexual fantasies a step further. It is when the fetish or paraphilia is harmful to others or the person with the fetish that it becomes problematic and the person with the fetish should seek out professional help. 
 
Here is a list of some fetishes:
 
Body piercing
Domination/submission
Latex or rubber
High heels
Feet - men
Hands –women
Braids ponytails
Fingernails
Water
Coprolalia – profanity
Robot
Somnophilia – loves to watch you sleep
Doraphilia – leather skin or fur
Uniforms
Pictophilia – otherwise known as pornography
Abasiophilia – sexual attraction to someone with physical impairment, leg braces, wheel chairs etc
 
 
 
More extreme fetishes:
Golden shower or Urolagnia
Emetophilia – arousal from vomit
Diapers – arousal from wearing diapers
Blood fetish – blood has magical properties – supernatural properties
Agalmatophilia – mannequins or statues
Dendrophilia – sexual attraction to trees
Archnephilia – sexual attraction to spiders
 
More dangerous fetishes/paraphilias:
Pyrophilia – Sexual attraction to fire
Necrophilia – sex with a corpse
Taphephilia – get an orgasm by being buried alive
 
 
Different classification of fetishes:
 
 

Media- the texture or feel of an object is what the fetish is about.

Form- this fetish type is focused on the shape of the object.

Animate- this fetish focuses on human body parts. 

As with any fetish or paraphilia, if you find that your attraction to the object of your fetish starts interfering with your like and your relationships, you should seek out help.  There are many counselors that are trained to help people manage their fetish and live happy normal lives. 

As always your comments are appreciated.  Please feel free to leave them below.  If you have any questions, concerns, stories you would like to share or topics you would like to read about please feel free to email me.  I plan to write articles on the different types of fetishes/paraphilias listed above.  They will be linked to this page for easy access.  You may want to subscribe to this page so that you will get notifications anytime a new article is published.  This will save you time from looking this page up again.  It is free and easy, just click the subscribe link at the top of the page and enter in your email.  Best of all it is confidential and spam free.  If you enjoyed this article you will love these topics:

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