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Love letter to my body

Dear Body, This Valentine’s Day, I wanted to apologize for a few things, and tell you how much I appreciate you—all of you. I know I...
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Why Does My Ex Put His New Girlfriend Before Our Son?

Dear Deborrah: I have a horrible problem, well I feel it is one anyway. I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. We have a son together. We broke...
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Ex-con seeks advice on parenting his daughter, but new wife is against it

Dear Deborrah: I know you specialize in advice to singles not married people, but I really love your stuff. I'm writing anyway with the hope...
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What are you worth?

Today's post continues with a discussion about the principles in the books Spiritual Economics and the Abundance Book. Money, Metaphysics and...
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Selfish jealous boyfriend tries to keep girlfriend at home and alone while he is out having fun!

Dear Deborrah: After many months of being unemployed, my boyfriend of two years finally got a job. That's great and I'm so happy for him....
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Reproductive coercion - when he tries to get her pregnant against her will

Dear Deborrah: I am a recent college graduate of San Francisco State and just turned 24 years old. I've been with my boyfriend/fiancée...
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Girlfriend complains he tries too hard to please - can he make her love him more?

Dear Deborrah: I am currently involved in a relationship with a young woman with whom I am madly in love. She claims to feel the same way about me,...
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Sense and Sensuality- get your groove back with Lori Bryant-Woolridge!

Author Lori Bryant-Woolridge Courtesy of Cleis Press I sat down with bestselling African American author Lori Bryant-Woolridge to discuss female...
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Dating and engaged within 6 months...the love dream is already turning into a nightmare

Dear Deborrah: I have been with this guy for about six months.We are currently engaged and I'm not sure if that is what he really wants. Lately...
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Should women ask men out on dates?

So-called "good men" frequently complain that women choose style over substance and prefer bad boys and players. Women counter with "...
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