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Having children is a reason to own guns - not a reason to get rid of guns

I’ve heard of gun owners who decided to get rid of their guns when their children were born.  Their theory was that the guns were a danger to the children, and the household was therefore better off without guns.  I disagree.  Getting rid of guns renders one’s household more vulnerable to violent criminals, and a couple of simple steps can virtually eliminate the risk that a child will find and misuse a gun:

Giving up firearms renders one’s home more vulnerable to criminals

A home without a gun is a home where criminals can leverage their superior strength, the element of surprise, and their own guns to harm their victims.  All too often, criminals inflict unspeakable harms upon the children of such homes:

Lawson and the three other defendants were all teenagers when police say they barged into a 35-year-old woman’s apartment, raped her repeatedly, beat her 12-year-old son and then forced her to perform oral sex on the boy. The victims were doused in chemicals to clean the crime scene, and police say their attackers discussed setting them on fire before fleeing. [Full article here]

Ledezma, 22, was armed with a BB gun that looked like a real handgun, an ax, a hunting knife and a stick that looked like a police baton, said Assistant State’s Attorney Maureen O’Brien. He first robbed the family, which also included the wife and two daughters, ages 7 and 10, in the living room. O’Brien said Ledezma then forced the family down into the basement and forced them to strip naked. He then locked the parents and the younger daughter in a bathroom and assaulted the older daughter. [Full article here]

Police say they are looking for three to four men after a violent home invasion in which children were tortured and a mother and daughter were burned with hot oil. According to police, the men started choking the kids and threatening them with weapons and hot oil. They reportedly tried to shoot at a baby and the family dog, but the gun jammed. Relatives told News 13 the suspects [also] put the 15-year-old girl’s hands on a hot stove. The teen and her mother were both treated for second- and third-degree burns. [Full article here]

On the other hand, statistical evidence and real-life examples make clear the fact that armed self defense works – even when the victim is seemingly at a disadvantage due to a surprise attack.  Guns enable mothers to save their children from violent attackers.  They enable pregnant women to protect themselves and their unborn children.  Guns allow sons to protect their mothers from burglars, and fathers to save their children from harm.  Guns make it possible for uncles to defend their nephews, and son-in-laws to protect their mother-in-laws.  Guns allow individuals to defend themselves, sparing their loved ones from the pain of losing a relative to violent crime.

Am I suggesting that every single violent crime could be stopped by armed citizens? Of course not.  Just as car seatbelts can’t prevent every traffic fatality, gun ownership doesn’t render a person invulnerable to every conceivable crime.  However, a great many violent crimes can be stopped by armed citizens. Moreover, each time a criminal is fatally shot, shot and then apprehended by the police, or held at gunpoint until the police arrive, there is one fewer violent criminal out preying upon innocent victims.  There is also less of a risk that police will erroneously arrest the wrong person, harming that innocent person while leaving the true criminal free to victimize more people.

Safe and responsible gun store virtually eliminates the risk that one’s child will find and misuse a gun

I understand that those who give up their guns do so out of a desire to protect their children from a perceived danger.  However, that danger is one that can be easily and effectively mitigated – without giving up one’s guns.

Using a gun safe to store one’s gun virtually eliminates the risk that child (or other unauthorized person) will gain access to gun. Gun safes with quick-access number pads and/or fingerprint readers also allow the gun to be safely stored, yet accessed in just seconds by the owner. Additionally, teaching a child the basics of gun safety from an early age has been shown to greatly reduce the risk that the child will ever misuse a gun.

For more info: See more about children and guns. You can also network with other gun owners and learn how they keep their children safe.
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Eric Puryear is an Attorney at Law who grew up in Chicago and now lives in Iowa. He writes about self defense and can be reached by email at...

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  • parabarbarian 2 years ago
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    What I do is lock the gun in a cabinet when I'm away. As soon as I get home I take the gun out of the cabinet and keep it on my person in an IWB holster.

  • lynn113 2 years ago
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    Where do you live? The gang ridden streets of LA? You sound paranoid.

  • adamp83 2 years ago
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    To lyn113...the author lives in America and is exercising his freedom. It doesn't matter where in the US he lives. Just because someone might live in a "safe neighborhood" doesn't mean that they should stop practicing self defence. Someones paranoia might save your behind one day. Paranoia can most definatly be a good thing.

    To parabarbarian...I unfortunatly have to do the same thing. I live in the socialist state of IL so my civil rights to self defence are impeded by laws against concealed/open carry but you better believe that as soon as I get home I kiss my wife and kids and head to that gun safe and strap on my 45.

  • mark2003 2 years ago
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    to parabarbarian... keep it up more citizens like yourself is what is keeping your family,friends and america safe. to lynn113...what diference does it make where he lives.just because you live in a upper class area of town means your safe? no! bad guys look for opertunity the go where it is less likly to be caught and they know that most of the people in these towns have a faulse sence of security and are more likely to not be aware of their surroundings.

  • 1 birdman 2 years ago
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    The NRA offers a whole host of programs to help teach youth safe gun, marksmanship and hunting skills. The "Eddie Eagle" program is directed at very young children. It teaches them what to do if they see a gun. These are invaluable to families and should be a part of every gun owners home and safety plan.

  • spellcheck friend 2 years ago
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    Awesome article!!! Just a few typos. Thanks so much for the research work and the wonderful links you provided!

    "On the other hand...gun enable mothers" in 6th paragraph should be "guns"

    "Am I suggesting...leaving the criminal free to victimizes" should be "victimize" 7th paragraph

    Heading at bottom "Safe and responsible gun store virtually eliminate" should be "gun storage virtually eliminates"

  • Eric Puryear 2 years ago
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    spellcheck friend: Thanks :)

    lynn113: I live in a nice neighborhood of a relatively low-crime city in Iowa. However, I know that criminals can strike anywhere, and often target nicer houses on the theory that nicer houses will have better things to steal.

  • Jsmith 2 years ago
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    Excellent article. Lots of good info here to digest.

  • David 2 years ago
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    Gunsafes are excellent choice just don't use the link provided in the article to buy one it's 2x the normal cost ;)

  • R.Diaz 1 year ago
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    Something I want to add to this discussion. The lynn113 types alaway say we gun owners are a paraniod bunch. Well we gun owners are what i say perpared. We are perpared to face the danger that may come upon us. So all you lynn113 minded people out there lets see how perpared you are when we have to face the danger.`

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