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Single cougars from all over America will converge on Silicon Valley on August 28th at 9pm for the National Single Cougar’s Convention Ball. The event will crown a Miss Cougar America in a contest for 40- plus, single women looking to snag a younger guy and is held in Silicon Valley, a metropolitan area with a surplus of young, urban, professional, men suffering from a shortage of women.
Why do single women approaching 40 find themselves drawn to younger men? The obvious answer is that the sex is hot and youth is gorgeous. But the not-so-obvious answer is that women see their reflection aging in the mirror and they want to attach themselves to something they miss. A younger man represents the youth women fear losing, and the fun they may have already lost. When a woman was 25 an older man was more attractive. He was strong, confident, paternal and powerful. But as a woman ages she views older men as a little tired, boring perhaps, and grasping at youth, pathetically, just like... Well, she sees herself and doesn’t like it. People are attracted to youth because it is fun, sexy, and exciting.
I caution these women to remember that younger men grow up and as their guy ages, he too starts to look south when he approaches 40. The 25-year-old girls admiring him will start to look pretty good to your used-to-be young man and your cougar ways will no longer keep him. If you are looking for a no-strings attached, fun, sexual relationship with a hot, younger, man then keep your perspective and don’t fall in love with your freshly netted cub. It is a fling, and unless you want your heart to be shattered you must remember that it is just a fling. If you are looking for a long-lasting, committed, relationship, consider an older man as an option. No matter how old, when men are in love, they morph into a 17-year-old boy. 50-year-old men still think they are 28 and if a woman inspires her older man she will get the benefits and wisdom from his age and also all the energy and passion of a 28-year-old.
Cougar parties have been featured by The San Francisco Chronicle, East Bay Express, and KRON TV.
Cougar Ball location: Dinah's Garden Hotel, 4261 El Camino Real, Palo Alto CA 94306
See The SF Nightlife Photos of the Miss Cougar USA: National Single Cougars Convention
Tijana Srdanov of Shezoom, produced, The Cougar Craze: Cougars in Action. Cougars and their cubs discuss going out and getting what they want.
For more information contact Melinda Maximova, matchmaker with Perfect Search melinda@theperfectsearch.com
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While I see your point about young cubs eventually growing and wanting their 25 y.o's, 50 y.o. men do NOT have the energy of a 28 y.o. Are you kidding me ? If they do, they too would be looking to go out w/ young chicks in their 20's.
Being a younger man (22) & prefer older women because they are less crazy & less emotionally unstable. Maybe it has to do with hormones, but already, younger women are high maintenance emotionally. They play all these confusing games, expecting me to read their freaking minds, when I just wish they'd tell me what they want. No 2 women are alike, so how am I supposed to just magically know? For example, she's mad, I have no idea why, yet she expects me to know. Forget it! I hate the silly games! Older women know what they want & straight up tell you! I love that kind of communication & it makes for a happier relationship. Believe it or not, not all guys just want sex. We need love too.
Hotdoginmirror, are you kidding me? Actually, any of you lumping an entire cross section of people as the same is absurd. A healthy, active 50 y.o. man might have an amazing amount of energy, while a smoking, drinking, obsese 25 y.o. cant even walk up the stairs.
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