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Tiny & Toya
Tonight I caught up with BET’s “Tiny & Toya”! For the most part, I’m enjoying the show. True, sometimes they are hard to understand when they speak. True, Toya needs to get over Wayne and doubly true Tiny is not that cute. But aside from that or maybe I’m just sentimental after watching Tiny say goodbye to T.I., “Tiny & Toya” are doing a good job at showing the world who they are and what’s going on in their lives. Of course, that doesn’t mean the world is going to like what they see. On the last few episodes Toya was been struggling with taking control of her life and getting back on the dating scene. Meanwhile, Tiny was preparing for T.I.’s departure and what the future will hold for her.
When it comes to Toya, I think she has a good heart, but she frustrates me. She told Tiny she was mad because a woman referred to her as Wayne’s “baby mama” and said she just wanted to known for being herself. The problem is the only reason anyone knows who she is, is because she’s Wayne’s baby mama. Truth be told, I think she likes being linked to Wayne. She says she’s not over him, but I think it has more to do with not wanting to let go of the fame and status. I hate that it’s like she’s only willing to date a man with a certain amount of money. I hope she has an ample amount of sessions booked with Dr. Ron because she needs it.
I like Tiny, but what the heck was going on with Tip? He was stressing Tiny when she was at the nail shop and she decided not to go out with her girls because he was having a moment of jealously. I like T.I., so I hope he’s not some controlling, insecure nutcase. Perhaps, a more likely story is that Tip is worried about his woman’s safety. Tip says he didn’t rat anyone out to get his lenient sentence, but rumors have swirled that he’s not telling the whole truth. If that’s true, then Tip may have a lot of enemies swirling around. Whatever the case, I’m sure Tiny was glad she decided to go home to her man when she was boohooing and saying “Goodbye.” T.I. aka Tip Harris is serving a year and a day on federal weapons charges. He began his sentence at the end of May 2009.
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Tiny and Toya,Girls i love ur show,it proves to the other women in the world that,a famous man is not always a dream man,its not worth the happiness but for the stress.Go on Girls and make urself useful in the society and let ur dreams be realised,u have ur abilities and capabilities so make great use of it.
Girls be an asset and not a liability,jealous girls leave Toya alone for me,she is not ready for Wayne`s nonse thats why she quit,if u are ready make urself useless for Waynes pleasure and tool,`House Material`
i viewed one episode of the tiny and toya show and was saddend. These two black woman are non existent without their men or any man in there lives. The lack of selfestem, initative and boldness in who they are as woman is just plane sad. What was going on when these women were growing up that they have no problem displaying this disfuction on national television let alone to there children! They will be in my prayers and i wish that i could hold a siminar on self love and how to love your man and still continue to be who GOD has ordained you to be.
Personal opinion, I do NOT like the show. I really don't see any significance in knowing anything about Tiny or Toya's life. I will say though, that Tiny is not just "T.I.'s fiance"..she had a career before him and she was doing quite well. And from what I heard, she was the one who put HIM on. So if anything, I would much rather hear about what SHE has going on then hear about this chick Toya. Since when does being someone's baby mama classify you as a celebrity? Aside from being Wayne's seed carrier, she has no importance. Another thing, I hate the way they talk. Its annoying and I can't stomach it. But there are people out there that enjoy the show, so more power to them. Got to make your money somehow.
T.I is toooooooo nice to be going through all this crap and thank god lil wayne left toya
"it proves to the other women in the world that,a famous man is not always a dream man"
shoot, I coulda told them that, waaaayyy before they got with these "men". Wayne's got kids from I don't know how many women, and Toya expected him to be a dream man???
PERSONALLY AFTER VIEWING AN EPISODE ONCE I REALLY CAN'T SPEAK ON WHAT I'VE WITNESSED SO FAR. I CAN'T JUDGE WHAT'S GOING ON IN TINY AND TOYA'S LIFE. HOW CAN YOU CRITICIZE SOMEONE FROM WATCHING A REALITY SHOW?! I ACTUALLY LOVE LIL WAYNE AND HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH TINY AND TOYA. I AMEND THEM FOR GOING THROUGH WITH THE WHOLE SHINDIG! PEOPLE ARE GOING TO TALK REGARDLESS IF IT'S GOOD OR BAD SO YOU CHICKS JUST KEEP DOING YOU!
Honestly, I dnt know who wrote this article but u shouldnt be judging Toya when it comes to her love life. This girl grew up with Lil Wayne. She knew him before he was even a star and she had his first child. Honestly who wouldnt wanna be Lil Wayne's baby mama. But what she's saying is nobody knows her for anything she's done other than have Wayne's baby and now that they're not together its probably pretty depressing watching him move up and have other girlfriends and children when u were there before it all. I personally like Toya. The first baby mama is always the one who is down for a man and understands bcuz she been thru it all. Don't judge her. She's going thru hard times.....
firstt of all youu need to shutt the fuhkk up
and stop judqin toya..she was wid lil waynee beforee
he was famous if youu was keepin tabs before uu started runnin yo mouth youu wouldd kno they still talkk! andd any woo tiny is very pretty and there is no way in hell sombody can just qive up on a person after theyy been toqether half they live and have a child toqether jealous bitches like you need to qet shot! my opinion is taht they both doin theyy thinqq andd youu are no bodyy to judqe she is known youu know of her youu kno she exsist she still somebodyy widoutt wayne soo fuhk off!and im sure youw ouldnt wanna be refereed to as somebodyy baby momma when youu was his first wifee and mother of his first child she wanna be referred to as toya or lil waynes ex wife and nothin less!
andd youu jessica bitchh tinyy
wass somebodyy wat before anybodyy knew
aboutt fuhkinn T.I shee putt him on the mapp
shee put destiny childs on the map
she wrote there first hit sinqle no scrubss
soo bitchh do yo researchh andd shutt the fuhkk up!
idontt see youu doinn shidd but youu critiscinqq!
Ok, first of all dani you need to take your non-spelling ass back to elementary school! Tiny is ugly and Toya needs to stop trippin' on Wayne. Just cause they still talk doesn't make her anything more than Lil Wayne's baby mama and she won't be until she does something other than pop out a baby. And get your facts straight . . . Tiny wrote No Scrubs for TLC not Destiny's Child.
@ Jade . . . wow you're clearly a dumbass golddigger. You asked "who wouldn't wanna be Wayne's baby mama?" How about someone who isn't just trying to get some child support.
I PERSONALLY LIKE THE SHOW AND ALL MY GIRLS AND ALOT OF MEN LIKE THE SHOW.IT SEEMS LIKE EVEN THE HATERS LIKE THE SHOW,!! SINCE THEY TOOK THE TIME TO BLOG ABOUT IT. I WOULDNT BLOG ABOUT NOTHING I DONT LIKE!! TO ME, IT SOUNDS MORE LIKE JEOLOUSY!!HELL I WOULD BE JEOLOUS TOO!!
ANOTHER THING, WHOEVER WROTE THIS ARTICLE IS SO PHONY, HOW YOU INTERVIEW SOMEBODY AFTER APPARENTLY HAVING TO CATCH UP WITH THEM AND BLOG ABOUT HOW TINY IS NOT CUTE. TI THINK SHES VERY CUTE, HE THINK SHES CUTE ENOUGH 2 HAVE 2 BABIES WITH HER AND IS WITH HER NOW. I BET THE PERSON WHO WROTE THIS ARTICLE IS A PRETTY ASS LONELY HO!!!
Thanks for stopping by and reading everyone.
@ Hot2deaf . . . check your facts boo before you start calling people phony. 1st of all I didn't say I interviewed anyone after having to catch up with them and #2 I didn't call anyone ugly. In fact, if you look at the pix (I picked all cute ones!). I also said people were probably hating and I quoted OTHER people not myself and the poll was what other readers thought. I just reported it. I also said clearly T.I. thinks she's beautiful. #3 I didn't say I didn't like the show. I said I was enjoying the show. If I was hating I wouldn't nice things at all. #4 Before you start trying to act like you know somebody (calling me a pretty ass lonely ho) you need to check that too. I have two last names genius. That might indicate that I'm married. . . where's your man and where's your pic? let's hold a poll on you.
How about you READ the articles before you comment.
and btw Hot2Deaf the phrase is Hot to DEATH, not deaf. and if you tryin to use slang then deaf is spelled def. DEAF is someone who can't hear.
To be honest. You got the story all messed up. Toya is not linked to Wayne because of his fame and the money, she was with Wayne from Day 1, even before he even became famous, Lil Wayne was her first everything! First boyfriend, husband, he took her virginity and everything! all these other chicks he messing with will never know the Real Wayne like Toya did! So thats my opinion on that!
By the way I understand why Toya doesnt wanna get referred to as Lil Wayne "baby mama" cause to be honest all these other chicks he been with and got babies with never was married to Lil Wayne like Toya was. So thats understandable why she does not wanna be referred that way, she want to be referred as "X-Wife"
And Tiny is not ugly by the way!! I bet if u saw her on the street right now u would go crazy!!
Ummm; Iddsz Not that tinysz ugly ! EvErY BOddie hasz there daysz, Shesz a really great person and thatsz sad that shesz ohn her own ) until Tip gheedsz outd ! Toya isz so pretty; a Wonderful Person* Her Daughter isz Very Cute! and I think her and wayne should be baqk whidd each otha . Gud Couple! I love Tiny & Toya !
omg im a big fan of your show. i will b glad if u mentcin me in your show
I LUVED THE SHOW...DIDNT LYKE THE WAY IT END...TINY IS A GUD FRIEND TO TOYA...I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL WID DA BUK,,B/C I WANT TO READ IT..AND ANOTHER THING DONT FORGET UR CHILDRENS AGE THEY DRESS TO GROWN
PERSONALLY I THOUGHT THE SHOW WAS STUPID TOYA ACT LIKE SHE CAN'T GET OVER WAYNE THEY HAD NOTHING TO TALK ABOUT IT WAS JUST STUPID TINY SHOULD OF STAYED OFF TV B/C SHE HAS AGED SINCE XSCAPE SHE USED TO BE THE CUTIES ONE IN THE GROUP BUT ANYWAYS THATS TV FOR U B/C I DON'T CARE ABOUT NEITHER ONE OF THEM TOYA TALKING ABOUT THE WORLD KNOW HER AS WAYNE BABY MOMMA I DIDN'T KNOW WHO SHE WAS UNTIL THE SHOW AIRED IT JUST SEEMED LIKE SOME MADE UP STUFF TO ME
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i love toya shes on her stuff nd dont worry bout nothin but herself nd what she nd for her family. YOU GO GIRL !!!!!!!!
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