Like many of you, I read about the young man who was shot close to St. James Cathedral, his name was Max Gasoi and he was 21. According to a story penned by Mike Carter in the Seattle Times
The man shot to death near St. James Cathedral Friday night was identified Saturday by his family as Max Gasoi, a local rap performer and promoter.
Miko Braxton, 21, the mother of Gasoi's infant daughter, said police told her that Gasoi died after being shot in the chest by an assailant. He was found lying next to a car in the street just around the corner from the church on Ninth Avenue shortly after 9 p.m.
Braxton said Gasoi had an appointment, but didn't know the details.
She believes that the 22-year-old Gasoi — who Braxton acknowledged "lived the gangster lifestyle" — likely shot back at the gunman who shot him.
Witnesses described a trio of shots that sounded like different caliber guns being fired.
Braxton said Gasoi had recently incorporated a record label — So Hood Records — and had been having success promoting material he performed under the name, "AKshun Tha Don."
On the So Hood MySpace page, Gasoi wrote that he was born in New York City, but moved to Seattle "in hopes of a better life."
He wrote that he moved to the Central District, where he made his living rapping and on the streets.
"They call me AKshun 'cause my life is like a action movie," he wrote. "My music is like a action packed movie."
His mother, Jody Meyers, gave an interview to KING television. This is not to diminish this woman’s obvious grief, but the interview left me wondering what was this man’s real story? Did he have a father who was more than a sperm donor? Were there any positive male role models in his life? One comment by Ms. Meyers that her son was her teacher, made me wonder who was the parent in this relationship? I note that one part of his story is he left behind is a baby mama and a young daughter. So, the cycle is probably repeating.
Too often, the definition of manhood in some communities has more to do with the caliber of the weapon young men often treat as a close friend. This distorted view of manhood has more to do with the number of women impregnated with your progeny rather than the quality of the parenting which helps children to achieve their highest life chances. This is the hip-hop culture which permeates many communities. President Obama has spoken eloquently about the absence of his father and the fact that he never wanted to be MIA in the lives of his children. See, It's the Culture and the Values, Stupid , Relationship Meltdown and the Effect on Children , Children, Especially Boys Need Positive Role Models , and Gang Bangers
The death cult of hip-hop has been on a lot of people’s radar for the past few years. Because of artistic freedom and the romanticizing of some hip-hop and rap stars, those sounding the alarm about this death cult have been labeled as prudes, nervous ninnies, and anti-free speech. A 2005 Nightline story by Jake Tapper and Marie Nelson looked at the links between corporate America and hip-hop
"The blueprint now is an image that promotes all of the worst aspects of violent and anti-social behavior," said Source editor Mays. "It takes those real issues of violent life that occur in our inner cities, it takes them out of context."
Attorney Londell McMillan, who represents Lil' Kim and many other hip-hop performers, says the record labels and radio stations push the artists toward a more violent image. "They all seek to do things that are extraordinary," he said, "unfortunately it's been extraordinarily in the pain of a people. They are often encouraged to take a certain kind of approach to the art form."
Added NYPD Commissioner Kelly, "Whereas some of the other violence was sort of attendant to the business itself, now I think they're trying to exploit it and make money off of it."
But C-Murder says if he projected a more benign image his career would be over. "I wouldn't sell a record because my fans would know that's not me," he said. "They don't expect me to just sit in that booth and write about stuff that the news or the media want to hear about."
Record executive Dash adds there is a double standard between predominantly black and predominantly white music. "I remember Woodstock Part II was a mess," Dash said, referring to the 1999 rock 'n' roll concert festival that exploded in a mass of riots and rapes. But, Dash said, "nothing more about it than that" transpired. "There wasn't any new laws, there wasn't any investigations. It just was."
Lest you think I am anti-capitalism, the real kind, not the corporate welfare of Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan Chase, you are wrong. Most inner city neighborhoods and poor regions like Appalachia and Mississippi desperately need investment and capital to encourage entrepreneurs. As the motto of Homeboy Industries states, the best defense against violence is a job.
John Mc Whorter wrote a prescient 2003 article in City Journal entitled, How Hip-hop Holds Blacks Back
But rap took a dark turn in the early 1980s, as this “bubble gum” music gave way to a “gangsta” style that picked up where blaxploitation left off. Now top rappers began to write edgy lyrics celebrating street warfare or drugs and promiscuity. Grandmaster Flash’s ominous 1982 hit, “The Message,” with its chorus, “It’s like a jungle sometimes, it makes me wonder how I keep from going under,” marked the change in sensibility. It depicted ghetto life as profoundly desolate:
You grow in the ghetto, living second rate
And your eyes will sing a song of deep hate.
The places you play and where you stay
Looks like one great big alley way.
You’ll admire all the numberbook takers,
Thugs, pimps and pushers, and the big money makers.
Music critics fell over themselves to praise “The Message,” treating it as the poetry of the streets—as the elite media has characterized hip-hop ever since. The song’s grim fatalism struck a chord; twice, I’ve heard blacks in audiences for talks on race cite the chorus to underscore a point about black victimhood. So did the warning it carried: “Don’t push me, ’cause I’m close to the edge,” menacingly raps Melle Mel. The ultimate message of “The Message”—that ghetto life is so hopeless that an explosion of violence is both justified and imminent—would become a hip-hop mantra in the years ahead.
The angry, oppositional stance that “The Message” reintroduced into black popular culture transformed rap from a fad into a multi-billion-dollar industry that sold more than 80 million records in the U.S. in 2002—nearly 13 percent of all recordings sold. To rap producers like Russell Simmons, earlier black pop was just sissy music. He despised the “soft, unaggressive music (and non-threatening images)” of artists like Michael Jackson or Luther Vandross. “So the first chance I got,” he says, “I did exactly the opposite.”
Now, for many children of color, the worry of being held back has been overtaken by dying young. Mc Whorter and C. Delores Tucker, among others, were warning about the dangers of hip-hop back in the day. Their predictions have come true.
Hip-hop music and hip-hop culture is just as virulent a disease as AIDS or cancer. The lifestyle is claiming bodies all over the country. There is money to be made in this culture of death and “presentable” purveyors like Sean Combs, Jay Z, and Russell Simmons funnel resources to public relations bonanzas like encouraging teen voting to burnish their image. I’m not sure if any of the trio has been appointed an UN ambassador yet. They, like the family portrayed in the God Father want to move into the mainstream and hide the source of their wealth. The mainstream corporations who profit from hip-hop and are all too happy to let Combs, Jay Z, and Simmons front the money making machine as they are smiling all the way to the bank.
Meanwhile, the body count continues.
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Max was a young man I have known since he was four years old. Both his parents live in Seattle and were very involved in his life. He has two younger brothers. The problem was that Max saw the ganster culture as something cool no matter what anyone said. His life was surrounded by love, including a large loving community who always encouraged him to stay in school and stay away from the ganster lifestyle. He rebelled. His father was always trying to help Max,involving his grandparents and other immediate family to try to reach Max. The ganster culture was just too enticing for Max, who is actually a sensetive and kind person. The story of his life is filled with love and family ties. Unfortunately as hard as we try, sometimes we cant save our children. I love Max and he will be greatly missed by alot of people. Everyone tried to encourage him to change his lifestyle before something tragic happened. He just couldnt believe something would actually happen and then it did.
It was not "hip hop" that claimed Max's life, it was a gun. Music does not kill. People can kill. Please don't get the message mixed. You don't know that the person who killed Max even listened to hip hop.
Hello Susan, I am sorry for your loss. I disagree with you about hip-hop and gansta rap. Guns are very much a part of the culture of hip-hop along with the use of violence to settle disputes. Please follow the Nightline link in my article. Hip-hop and gansta rap are death cultures and yes, I agree with Dr. Mc Whorter that hip-hop culture is holding Blacks back. We need a culture that supports strong committed relationships which provide the framework to nurture children. We need to value education and achievement. Hip-hop culture is the culture of death. Too many of our talented young men with so much potential are having their lives cut short.
So Dr. Wilda, how are you going to reach the kids? Because this bit won't.
Hello Stark,
I am talking about cultural change which requires the involvemet of EVERYBODY. I don't know your age, but two examples of cultural change are the campaign against Drunk Driving with Candy Lightner of MADD and the campaign against smoking in public. Back in the day, you could look at the magazines popular in the 50s and see doctors in ads for smoking. People thought smoking was fashionable and the health risks, although known by the tobacco companies, were not public knowledge. People often drank and then drove before the MADD campaign. Cultural change is never perfect as we still have people who smoke and drive while drunk, but there has been significant change. Cultural change starts small with people disavowing activities as individuals and then it becomes a cultural norm and more widespread. The violence must be disavowed and the change starts one street at a time. People can rarely be forced to do anything, except with significant sanctions. They must want change.
omg, if you had even a ounce of spirituality that jody myers has you would understand his being her teacher, my spiritual children teach me every day,and yes she was the mother and don't u dare assume anything less and give her anymore guilt then she has to live with for the rest of her life. max also has a father unlike the rappers you know. maybe he wasn't father of the year but he gave love and consistancy.
Hello Joanne,
I am sorry for your grief. This is what I said, "This is not to diminish this womans obvious grief, but the interview left me wondering what was this mans real story? Did he have a father who was more than a sperm donor? Were there any positive male role models in his life? One comment by Ms. Meyers that her son was her teacher, made me wonder who was the parent in this relationship?" I simply asked questions, I did not assume anything. If anyone wants to write Max's story, I would be happy to post it. I listen to people's stories all the time, that is how one learns. Just like you did not want me to assume anything about Ms. Meyer's spirituality, don't assume anything about my questions other than wanting to know the story.
dont blame hip hop and focus on the negative aspects of it, you dont know enought about it to judge it, you only know what you hear, not what you lived and seen in the streets. people dont keep guns for no reason, it's called survival.
Not True,
What is not true? Is it true that most commercially successful, $$$ hip-hop music glorifies violence, advocates settling disputes by violence, and says that respect for any type of authority is to be avoided? Is it true that most $$$ hip-hop music demeans women and often refers to them as bitches and hoes? Is that true? Now, in terms of a community or neighborhood, people make the community or neigborhood. True, in some neighborhoods gangs have taken control and will use any means necessary to silence people. Still, you talk of being armed for survival. Really, how many neighborhoods all over this country have a life expectancy for young Black and Latino men who live in those neighborhoods of less than 25 years? You call that survival?
"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind...."
Mahatma Gandhi
As Max's girlfriend and the mother of his daughter I have to write you and let you know that he was a wonderful father. We were together for four years and the whole time he was supportive and caring. Through my entire pregnancy he was there and in the delivery room with me being my support team. He was around his daughter every day helping me take care of her and watch her. All he ever talked about was watching her grow up and raising her to be a strong woman. He worked so hard on his rap career so she could have a great life. His rap career had nothing to do with his death. Rap didn't kill max, some evil person did. You cant speak about his parenting skills towards his daughter, you never met him or saw him around her. If you did you wouldn't even question this.
Dear Miko,
I have responded to your comment at a separate post.
Max may have been a sensitive person, and a good father although, he never really had the chance. He was very young, and was taken by easy money, fast times, and of living off the proceeds for years to come. There was definately something missing in his upbringing. Making babies, drinking, carrying guns and selling drugs. As a parent If I even thought my child was doing one of these things and did not get him real help, I would be considered negligent. I believe, there was probably drugs or violence in his parents lives in the past. Kids do not "teach" parents how to sell drugs or dress like prisoners. It is lack of guidance and so sad!!!! Our examples are passed down through generations.
I just hope that his precious baby is truly loved and is able to understand the good and the bad, (not the glorified version) that was the Daddy that it will never remember or get to know.
I'm sorry that Mr Gasoi, had to leave this earth under the saddening circumstances that he did. And to acknowledge that his actions brought him to where he was, carrying a gun with the thought that he may have to shoot back, proves he had an idea of what may come. We are that from which we have come from, and are that of which we speak...so lets speak of kindness and of the truth. I hope that his girlfriend can get the mental and family support that she so definately needs and with that, time may heal wounds.
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