Is the grass greener over there?
You're sitting on the fence when it comes to online dating.
On the one side is your current situation. You have dated a few people you met through mutual friends or by luck at a bar or dance club. Things have worked out, but you wouldn't say you have an active dating life. Come to think of it, you have nothing to show for it since you're sitting on this fence.
So you look out over the fence and see all these people on sites like Match.com, eHarmony, Chemistry, Yahoo Personals, ChristianCafe, and more. Maybe you even have friends or colleagues who met online and are now happily married.
You think:
- "Should I do this?"
- "Can't I just meet people the old fashioned way?"
- "Why do I NEED the internet to find love?"
- "I wouldn't know the first thing about dating online."
- "What kind of people are on dating sites? Would any of them even be the kind of people I'd want to date?"
- "I'm a senior citizen. Are there people my age on dating sites?"
Does this sound like you, friend?
Stay tuned for more in this series to help you decide if you should hop the fence and give online dating a try. Besides, if you're comfy on the fence, the least I can do is entertain you!
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