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When your girlfriend is literally the girl next door, familiarity breeds contempt

Sandy,I met my girlfriend in my dorm my freshman year – we go to the same school – and we really hit it off. The next year we ended up...
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Are you a Sexy Sebastian attracted to a Mediocre Mary? Solve your quandary...

I am kind of a superficial guy--every chance I get, I check girls out. I love looking at girls. However, I recently started having feelings for one...
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Is your girlfriend too close to her ex or are you just jealous? Find out here.

I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a year now, but in the past few months she’s been getting a lot of text messages and sometimes phone...
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Flirtatious texts, booties and exes, oh my! This man just can't get past his player-crush.

I have a mad crush on a guy who was in one of my classes. He's everything I want in someone because he's funny, he's got a great personality, and...
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Her boyfriend wants her on birth control - could oral sex and flavored condoms fix this jam?

My boyfriend has been bugging me about going on birth control so he can stop wearing condoms when we have sex. He says that every time he puts a...
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A woman's boyfriend cheated on her - what would you do if it happened to you?

Recently, I found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. After listening to his explanation, I think that I might be able to forgive him. I love him...
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Need Advice? Submit your questions now!

Photographer: Michelle MeiklejohnNeed advice? There are several easy ways to submit your questions, comments and advice requests to Life Love and...
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Could this guy be TOO nice?

Four years ago I met a guy at school about two years older than me. We hit it off right away, hanging out, and definitely both into each other. The...
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The history of the condom

(AP Photo/Karel Navarro)Per your reader requests, I made a stop at UC Irvine's Langson Library to investigate the history behind everyone’s...
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Promiscuous girls

Tom ClareDear Sandy, I am interested in starting a romantic relationship with one of my close guy friends, but there is a problem. He is a virgin...
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