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Valentine's Day can be any day or every day for couples. Start today to feel sexy about yourself with wonderful lotions that make your skin deliciously soft and silky. Green is the new red for Valentines Day
Write a note to yourself that says, "I am a loving person and I deserved to be loved."
Romantic gesture, # 2
Buy your guy something silky -- from boxers to a tie. Add a note that says, "Your body next to mine feels like silk and I want to wrap myself all around you to feel the sensation."
When you are alone that evening make up a sexy silk story or read him this one. Just be casual and say, 'Hot guy, can I read you a little something about a silk surprise?"
A mood starter story
"He took one of my own long silk scarves and at first rubbed it gently across my face. I felt the sensation of his hands, the silk, his hot breath.
"Then he wrapped the scarf around my eyes and I was in darkness feeling as if my body was suspended before his longing eyes facing me.
"Or was he facing me? Where was he? I didn't call his name so as not to break the spell. My body tingled in wonder, in waiting . . .”
If he isn't feeling hot, take the silk surprise and gently rub it across his body -- every part.
For a little bit of the thrill of bondage, without getting kinky, this is a way for husbands and wives, lovers and couples to develop a sense of trust. With sight deprivation you are at the mercy of another. It may be a bit scary, but it is also a time when couples tell me that they let their minds wander into the world of erotic images and fantasies.
Sex tip from Alison: Magical lighting Tip 2 along the way to Valentine's Day
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Alison by Alison
My book, B is for Bondage is luscious, naughty, and infinitely sexy. But here is a gentle, romantic thought. Whether you want to try a blindford or use silk ties as playful handcuffs, remember that lighting changes everything. One of my all-time favorite bedroom décor tricks is to string fairy lights (tiny white Christmas lights) from the ceiling.
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Don’t tell your partner ahead of time. Wait for just the right moment, and then turn your bedroom into a magical setting for romantic fun.
Then if you decide to break out with the blindfolds or fun edible handcuffs, you are already in a playful mood.
Here are other thoughts from Alison:
- Scandalously romantic sex tip; 1 is Valentine 'amour'
- More good reading: Sexy Books: Five flirty favorites in time for Valentine's Day gift giving/ Sarah Estrella
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