Scandalously romantic love tip 4, Valentine dress-up and desire

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Dress-up, dare, and desire! So often we fall into comfortable patterns. Change even for the better is difficult.  But it can be easier if we role play. So to liven up romance, here are some ideas. 

Romance tips: You can be the lovely shy lady in a Victorian gown, high neck, ruffles, lace and nothing more.  Or perhaps you can become Little Red Riding Hood, wearing just a little red hoodie as Alison Tyler suggests.  Become a siren in black lace head to toe.  Or just be yourself and add a daring twist.

Here is the fun part -- leave a chocolate under your lover's pillow -- just as they do in decadently elegant hotels.  It is more than a sweet, it is an aphrodisiac.  And wrap it in a love note dare.  Trust your imagination. 

• What would a Victorian woman dare a man to do? 
• And how might Little Red Riding Hood dare her Wolfe? 
• And the lacy black sexy siren, what would she dare?

And if you just want to be yourself, dare yourself to discover a new intimate feeling  making your lover feel as if he is the superman of desire. Marcel Proust once said, "Desire makes everything blossom."

Alison's sexy tip #4

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D is for Dress-Up (Erotic Alphabet Series)

Cleis Press says, "The couples in these stories love to put on a costume and try out a new persona for some playful, amorous fun. Rachel Kramer Bussel shows what happens when a modern girl becomes Dorothy for the Day, while Bryn Haniver's narrator makes short work of an old prom dress in Rags to Riches."

Alison says:

Playing dress-up doesn’t require a trip to the thrift store. Shop in your own closet for an outfit.

The trick is discovering a new way to use what you already own.

Do you only wear that sheer blouse over a camisole?

Try the shirt with nothing underneath.

Has it been forever since you last wore heels? Slip on a pair wearing one of his business shirts and just button one button for a new twist on that Risky Business style./ Alison

The secret to great loving and great sex is having fun!

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Copyright 2009 Rita Watson