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Alison Tyler has been bringing us some scandalous romantic love and sex tips from her erotic alphabet series. But when it came to the K's she asked her friend Violet Blue for advice since this is her new book from Cleis Press: Seal it with a kiss: Tips, Tricks and Techniques for Delivering the Knockout Kiss by Violet Blue.

Violet Blue is also a sex educator whom Sarah Estrella, our Sex and Relationships Examiner, features in her columns. So before puckering up -- here is some luscious advice.

First Kiss Do’s and Don’ts:

Do smile a lot, even while kissing.
Do keep eye contact.
Do make sure you have nice breath.
Do remember to come up for air.
Do start slow.
Do begin with small movements of the lips, head, body, and hands.
If you make the first move, do pull back after the first kiss to gauge his or
her response.
Do keep your lips soft and the muscles relaxed—not hard or tight.
Do keep your tongue in your mouth (see above).
Do linger for a moment after the kiss. Especially for a smile.
Do pay attention to where your noses are going and avoid a collision.

A Cleis Press Book

And now for the Don'ts

Don’t approach the kiss with your mouth open.
Don’t worry if you collide! Laugh and move in again slow.
Don’t jam your tongue in his mouth.
Don’t slobber!
Don’t make yummy noises—yet.
Don’t make overly loud kissing or “smacking” noises.
Don’t let your hands wander.
Don’t start off with bites or suction.
Don’t rush—savor this moment, even if you’re nervous.
Don’t worry about what you look like.
Don’t attempt this kiss if you’re not feeling well.
Don’t finish the kiss abruptly, even if you don’t like it.
Don’t forget to breathe!

We cannot let the K's go by without mentioning Tinamarie Bernard's Modern Love 101: What is the perfect kiss? 

And since we are on the K's from Sarah Estrella a bit of kink Sexy Films: CineKink NYC Film Festival winners announced, 'S&M Judge,' 'My Sexuality' on top and from Alison  Tyler K is for Kinky.

Here are tips 1 - 10, happy loving!

Loving sexy quick tips 10, juicy and jealous erotica for scandalous romantics

Loving sexy quick tips 9, imagination for scandalous romantics

Scandalously romantic love tip 8, hugging and holding (video) and Alison Tyler's advice

Scandalously romantic love tips 7, Valentine garters and games with Alison Tyler's erotic alphabet

Scandalously romantic love tips 6, fantasy and fetishes; Alison Tyler, Alphabet Erotica

Scandalously romantic love tip 5, entertaining and exotic (video)

Scandalously romantic love tip 4, Valentine dress-up and desire

Scandalously romantic love tip 3, Valentine coeds and couples

Scandalously romantic love tip 2, Valentine silk

Scandalously romantic sex tip; 1 is Valentine ‘amour’

Copyright 2010 Rita Watson