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Valentine’s Day – It’s Not Just for Women…Men Want Love Too!!!

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As much as some men dread it and some women are ambivalent to it, in less than 3 weeks the annual national day of expressing your ‘undying love and devotion’ (can you hear the sarcasm in my voice) will be celebrated. I am of course, talking about Valentine’s Day. The day where people (namely men) go over the top with expensive flowers that were $20 a dozen leading up to Valentine’s Day have now exploded to five times that amount, based simply on supply and demand. Where a typical box of Godiva that is already expensive, is double the price, and where there is a mad frantic dash to ‘get the right gift’ and where women at work are silently competing for and /or anticipating the UPS, FEDEX, FTD, and PRO-FLOWERS delivery trucks like children at Christmas.

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But out of all of the frenzy, I don’t see too many women going out of their way to make Valentine’s Day special for the man in their life.

What have you done for him lately? What special gift, action, or deed, have you done for him that lets him know that you love and appreciate him? Why is it solely the responsibility of the man to express his love in an exponential way as if February 14th is the only day they EVER express their love to you?

We know that men and women think of sex as often as the other, and as you search the internet for romantic getaways and ideas, it all seems geared to the woman’s wants, needs, and desires, but not his. What about his wants and needs?

Here is a short list of romantic gestures that you can do to and for him not just on Valentine’s Day, but every day of the year.

Yes, there is a theme here, because life happens and we cannot always be on our “A” game and men are way more fragile than we {women} like to admit. However, this night that you have designated as his night to remind him, that you love, cherish, and desire him, that you are giving him the “KING” treatment as head of his castle, will go a long to deepening intimacy and/or reigniting that spark.

Hey and if your man is not motivated by any of the above, then find out motivates him show him that Valentine’s Day is not just about you!

Happy Love Day!

Saundra aka SassyScribe



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