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Valentine’s Day – It’s Not Just for Women…Men Want Love Too!!!

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As much as some men dread it and some women are ambivalent to it, in less than 3 weeks the annual national day of expressing your ‘undying love and devotion’ (can you hear the sarcasm in my voice) will be celebrated. I am of course, talking about Valentine’s Day. The day where people (namely men) go over the top with expensive flowers that were $20 a dozen leading up to Valentine’s Day have now exploded to five times that amount, based simply on supply and demand. Where a typical box of Godiva that is already expensive, is double the price, and where there is a mad frantic dash to ‘get the right gift’ and where women at work are silently competing for and /or anticipating the UPS, FEDEX, FTD, and PRO-FLOWERS delivery trucks like children at Christmas.

But out of all of the frenzy, I don’t see too many women going out of their way to make Valentine’s Day special for the man in their life.

What have you done for him lately? What special gift, action, or deed, have you done for him that lets him know that you love and appreciate him? Why is it solely the responsibility of the man to express his love in an exponential way as if February 14th is the only day they EVER express their love to you?

We know that men and women think of sex as often as the other, and as you search the internet for romantic getaways and ideas, it all seems geared to the woman’s wants, needs, and desires, but not his. What about his wants and needs?

Here is a short list of romantic gestures that you can do to and for him not just on Valentine’s Day, but every day of the year.

Yes, there is a theme here, because life happens and we cannot always be on our “A” game and men are way more fragile than we {women} like to admit. However, this night that you have designated as his night to remind him, that you love, cherish, and desire him, that you are giving him the “KING” treatment as head of his castle, will go a long to deepening intimacy and/or reigniting that spark.

Hey and if your man is not motivated by any of the above, then find out motivates him show him that Valentine’s Day is not just about you!

Happy Love Day!

Saundra aka SassyScribe

Romantic Bath
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Romantic Bath

Start his night home with a nice warm bath to help ease his tensions away. This is not only loving, but a very erotic and sinuous beginning to a terrific evening.

Sexy Lingerie
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Sexy Lingerie

Slip into something ultra sexy and appealing. You know your man., and though some men may not be into lingerie, they are into who is wearing it.

High Heels Are Sexy
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High Heels Are Sexy

Men love high heels! They love the way they give shape to our derriere. How it elongate's our body and makes our legs look amazing.

Also ladies, heels gives us a confidence to our stride is ultra sexy.

Surprise Love Coupons
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Surprise Love Coupons

This is the gift that can continue to give throughout the year. Wrap up a coupon booklet of love gestures that you make and create yourself with special tickets for massages, back rubs, and a few “fill in the blanks” allowing him to ask for what he really wants from you.

Mood Music
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Mood Music

A mix CD of songs that you like to make love to or songs that remind him of special events with you can be used over and over again together or when he is alone.

Love Bites
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Love Bites

Fresh ripe strawberries, plump grapes, and juicy peaches dipped in chocolate are great aphrodisiactic foods that will wet his palate, but leave his other ‘appetites’  hungry for more..

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