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8 tips for having bigger, better orgasms

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There is nothing in the world that feels better than an orgasm. It is the one thing that always gets better and better. Most people want to get orgasms that are more frequent, stronger and that last for a long time. However, not everyone has succeeded in making this fantasy come true. It is possible to make this fantasy a reality if you know exactly what to do. Here are the things that you should always do to get bigger better orgasms;

1. Use the right kinds of foreplay

If you want to have an amazing sex that will lead to bigger and better orgasms, you have to focus on foreplay. Foreplay helps to stimulate all the senses in your body making it easier for you to get maximum pleasure. Choose foreplay that both you and your partner are comfortable with and that you love engaging in. This way, the foreplay will not feel like an obligation. It will be something that both of you enjoy doing. Studies have shown that foreplay can increase the chances of getting an orgasm by up to 18 percent.

2. Practice how to get an orgasm alone

To increase the chance of getting an orgasm while you are with your partner, you have to learn how to climax by yourself. A solo session will help you figure out what exactly pushes you to the edge. You will know the things to do and the right places to touch in order to do to reach climax and get better orgasms. The better you understand your anatomy, the better and longer your orgasms will be. You will be able to climax yourself whenever you want.

3. Delay your orgasms

Good things come to those who wait, right? This statement is true when it comes to orgasms too. When you are just about to climax, stop and start the whole process all over again. This can be achieved by slowing down or pausing for a while. Most people usually fail to stop because they put so much thought in what they are feeling at the moment without thinking about how much better they will feel if they just postponed climaxing for a few more minutes. Delay gratification as much as you can until you reach a point where you can’t delay it no more. In the end, the orgasm that you will get will definitely be worth the wait.

4. Exercise more

People who engage in more physical activity are not only confident with heir bodies but they also stand a better chance of being satisfied in bed. Therefore, work out a few times a week if you always want to have sex that makes you have better orgasms. Get yourself ready for an explosive night by being more physically active during the day.

5. Make use of the right sex gear

Sex toys can really help as far as orgasm is concerned. Get the ones that you can use alone or with your partner. There are many types of sex toys in the market today. You can never miss the one that makes you feel like you are on top of the world.

6. Focus on the G spot

To get a woman to climax, more focus has to be put on the clitoris. Most women fail to reach orgasm during intercourse because their partners don’t put enough emphasis on this important part of a woman’s body. Therefore, if you want to give her a remarkable sexual experience, give more attention to the G spot. This will tremendously increase the chances of having an explosive orgasm.

7. Get more love hormone (oxytocin)

When you have high levels of oxytocin in you body, you are highly likely to have better orgasms. You can easily increase the levels of oxytocin in your body by engaging in activities that show love towards your partner such as hugging, curdling and kissing. A nice conversation can also help to increase the levels of this hormone in the body.

8. Eat the right kind of foods

There are some foods that can really help to improve your libido. Examples include peaches and oatmeal. Taking these foods before having sex can greatly increase chances of having an orgasm. Identify the foods that improve your libido and take them before sex to get yourself close to the finish line.

There are also all natural supplements you can take to help you last longer, such as Stamizyn for men, and Libidra for women, which may increase the female libido.

Here are two related articles reviewing Stamizyn and Libidra:

Stamizyn: Does male enhancement work?

How Libidra can enhance female orgasm

Use the right kinds of foreplay
Use the right kinds of foreplay shutterstock

Use the right kinds of foreplay

If you want to have an amazing sex that will lead to bigger and better orgasms, you have to focus on foreplay. Foreplay helps to stimulate all the senses in your body making it easier for you to get maximum pleasure. Choose foreplay that both you and your partner are comfortable with and that you love engaging in. This way, the foreplay will not feel like an obligation. It will be something that both of you enjoy doing. Studies have shown that foreplay can increase the chances of getting an orgasm by up to 18 percent.

Practice how to get an orgasm alone
Practice how to get an orgasm alone shutterstock

Practice how to get an orgasm alone

To increase the chance of getting an orgasm while you are with your partner, you have to learn how to climax by yourself. A solo session will help you figure out what exactly pushes you to the edge. You will know the things to do and the right places to touch in order to do to reach climax and get better orgasms. The better you understand your anatomy, the better and longer your orgasms will be. You will be able to climax yourself whenever you want.

Delay your orgasms
Delay your orgasms shutterstock

Delay your orgasms

Good things come to those who wait, right? This statement is true when it comes to orgasms too. When you are just about to climax, stop and start the whole process all over again. This can be achieved by slowing down or pausing for a while. Most people usually fail to stop because they put so much thought in what they are feeling at the moment without thinking about how much better they will feel if they just postponed climaxing for a few more minutes. Delay gratification as much as you can until you reach a point where you can’t delay it no more. In the end, the orgasm that you will get will definitely be worth the wait.

Exercise more
Exercise more shutterstock

Exercise more

People who engage in more physical activity are not only confident with heir bodies but they also stand a better chance of being satisfied in bed. Therefore, work out a few times a week if you always want to have sex that makes you have better orgasms. Get yourself ready for an explosive night by being more physically active during the day.

Make use of the right sex gear
Make use of the right sex gear shutterstock

Make use of the right sex gear

Sex toys can really help as far as orgasm is concerned. Get the ones that you can use alone or with your partner. There are many types of sex toys in the market today. You can never miss the one that makes you feel like you are on top of the world.

 Focus on the G spot
Focus on the G spot shutterstock

Focus on the G spot

To get a woman to climax, more focus has to be put on the clitoris. Most women fail to reach orgasm during intercourse because their partners don’t put enough emphasis on this important part of a woman’s body. Therefore, if you want to give her a remarkable sexual experience, give more attention to the c spot. This will tremendously increase the chances of having an explosive orgasm.

Get more love hormone (oxytocin)
Get more love hormone (oxytocin) shutterstock

Get more love hormone (oxytocin)

When you have high levels of oxytocin in you body, you are highly likely to have better orgasms. You can easily increase the levels of oxytocin in your body by engaging in activities that show love towards your partner such as hugging, curdling and kissing. A nice conversation can also help to increase the levels of this hormone in the body.

Eat the right kind of foods
Eat the right kind of foods shutterstock

Eat the right kind of foods

There are some foods that can really help to improve your libido. Examples include peaches and oatmeal. Taking these foods before having sex can greatly increase chances of having an orgasm. Identify the foods that improve your libido and take them before sex to get yourself close to the finish line.

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