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How to get over a breakup when you still love your ex

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How to get over a break up when you still love them can be a problem. But before you made a decision to break up there must be some reasons why you resolved to break up. Maybe it is for the good of your life. Any moment that you will be faced with a challenge of going back you should remember what let you to breaking up. In case you keep daily records of your life then it is high time for you to go to your diary and go through what let you to break up. In some cases your ex may want you back where the ex will try to incorporate different tricks so that you will be able to revive your relationship. In such a case you should be firm and stick to your decision. Here are some tips on how to get over a break up:

Try to keep distance

Keeping distance is the best way that will enable you achieve in your plan on how to get over a break up completely. For instance you should try and avoid being friends with his or her relatives because it is very easy for your ex to take advantage and get you back through the relatives. If possible you should also cut off any form of communication such as sending each other emails and text messages. In case you were friends on social Medias such as Facebook then you should make sure you terminate the friendship so that you will not be able to share information via the social sites which can lead to your reunion. [Read more:Does Facebook lead to divorce?]

Talk to your friends about the breakup

There are cases where you will feel so lonely where you may be tempted to go back to your ex. In such a case you should visit your close friends and share with them your story on what let you to break up. Through sharing with the friends mostly they will encourage you where they will state clearly that you do not deserve what may have happened to you. They will also share with you their experience in life which will make you feel you are worthy a more deserving person in your life. This will lead you to enjoying life where you will end up getting over your ex completely. Friends will also enable you pass time and forget about the thoughts that you may be developing about your ex.

Try to get rid of all memory triggers of your ex

There are some things you used to do together with your ex such as taking photos and going for outings .For you to avoid a case where you will feel like you should start the relationship once more you should try to get rid of all the photos that you took together. In case there was a song that your ex used to enjoy a lot then you should try and avoid listening to such a song because it can easily lead you to reuniting with your ex because you will end up missing the ex. In case you accidentally land on the triggers of the memories then you should try and look for ways of killing the memories such as going through your diary where you will see the harm that your ex may have caused you which lead to the break up. Read more:[6 ways to pick up women] and [How to pick up men: A guide for shy girls]

Try to look for other sources of happiness in your life

Your only source of happiness may be staying close to your lover. After you break up for you to get rid of your ex completely you should look for ways through which you can find happiness in life. For instance you can take time and join other activities such as learning on how to play a guitar in your neighborhood or other activities that will lead you to enjoying life. Remember after you achieve happiness in your life without your ex you will end up finding life easy where you will not develop any interest of getting your ex back. Start dating others and get back into a social scene. Don't become so depressed that you close everyone out.

Try to be active in your life

You may be that person who used to have a lot of time spending with your lover. After you break up it is always necessary for you to try and stay active. The best way for you to stay active is to try and involve in exercises. Through exercises you will also achieve in getting rid of bad mood that can be developed due to your break up.

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Try to keep distance
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Try to keep distance

Keeping distance is the best way that will enable you achieve in your plan on how to get over a break up completely. For instance you should try and avoid being friends with his or her relatives because it is very easy for your ex to take advantage and get you back through the relatives. If possible you should also cut off any form of communication such as sending each other emails and text messages. In case you were friends on social Medias such as Facebook then you should make sure you terminate the friendship so that you will not be able to share information via the social sites which can lead to your reunion.

Talk to your friends about the breakup
Talk to your friends about the breakup shutterstock

Talk to your friends about the breakup

There are cases where you will feel so lonely where you may be tempted to go back to your ex. In such a case you should visit your close friends and share with them your story on what let you to break up. Through sharing with the friends mostly they will encourage you where they will state clearly that you do not deserve what may have happened to you. They will also share with you their experience in life which will make you feel you are worthy a more deserving person in your life. This will lead you to enjoying life where you will end up getting over your ex completely. Friends will also enable you pass time and forget about the thoughts that you may be developing about your ex.

Try to get rid of all memory triggers of your ex
Try to get rid of all memory triggers of your ex livewithpurposecoaching.com

Try to get rid of all memory triggers of your ex

There are some things you used to do together with your ex such as taking photos and going for outings .For you to avoid a case where you will feel like you should start the relationship once more you should try to get rid of all the photos that you took together. In case there was a song that your ex used to enjoy a lot then you should try and avoid listening to such a song because it can easily lead you to reuniting with your ex because you will end up missing the ex. In case you accidentally land on the triggers of the memories then you should try and look for ways of killing the memories such as going through your diary where you will see the harm that your ex may have caused you which lead to the break up.

Try to look for other sources of happiness in your life
Try to look for other sources of happiness in your life shutterstock

Try to look for other sources of happiness in your life

Your only source of happiness may be staying close to your lover. After you break up for you to get rid of your ex completely you should look for ways through which you can find happiness in life. For instance you can take time and join other activities such as learning on how to play a guitar in your neighborhood or other activities that will lead you to enjoying life. Remember after you achieve happiness in your life without your ex you will end up finding life easy where you will not develop any interest of getting your ex back.

Try to be active in your life
Try to be active in your life eatbetterandmove.com

Try to be active in your life

You may be that person who used to have a lot of time spending with your lover. After you break up it is always necessary for you to try and stay active. The best way for you to stay active is to try and involve in exercises. Through exercises you will also achieve in getting rid of bad mood that can be developed due to your break up.

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