Not many things compare with the stimulating charge of a spectacular kiss. Especially a fantastic “first kiss” that makes the knees weak, head dizzy, and elicits the unexpected moan to escape. Tragically too few are well versed in the art of the kiss.
So listen up people: Kissing is like sex for the mouth. Yes, I said it. That just happened. Those who underestimate the enormity and importance of kissing are doomed to pay the consequences; to wit: bad or less sex. If you cannot bring your ‘A’ game to the opening ceremonies, the torch will not light or shine brightly. Are you following the weak metaphor?
In truth, good kissing has as much to do with your partner and the mutual chemistry between the two of you as does technical prowess and well-honed lipology skills. Still, there are some basics everyone can use to improve their kissing I.Q.
While this is generally addressed to men, as we are often the romantic klutzes, these rules apply to the ladies as well. I shall refer to your partner as “her” for ease, but feel free to substitute “him” as required.
That said, women, more so than men, use a first kiss as an assessment of your suitability as a partner. Are you confident? Sloppy? Selfish? Gentle? Playful? Sensual? Passionate? Simply put, a sloppy, selfish kisser is likely to be a bad lover--and by extension a poor partner.
Let us take a look a few basic do and don’ts, tips and tricks…