Security is the foundation of a woman's decision to submit in a relationship. For some women, mainly women of color, the concept of submission is enough to cause hives. So much goes into being able to submit. While men think it's all about being there and providing that tangible, financial security, making your women feel secure is a constant and consistent action. Guys like routine in relationships. If what we've done has worked in previous relationships, then we carry that same modus operandi forward. But just because something appears to work doesn't mean it's right or will work for every woman.
Every woman has their own list of important signs that they look for in order to build up that trust. However some things are just innate for a woman to expect from her man.