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Do you ever look at some guys who are just naturals with women and wonder what their secret is? It's not magic.The truth is that men who are attractive to women are successful because of their personality. Strong character traits and a good vibe are essential. If a woman trusts you and perceives you to be worthy of their time, they're much more likely to be into you! Who wouldn't be interested in a guy who makes them feel special? Here are some special tips and tricks that will help you get into the right mentality that is irresistible to women.

6 Ways To Pick Up Women

1. Exude confidence and make eye contact.

Looking away or not being direct communicates a lack of self confidence, and if you're not confident in you, why should she be? Making eye contact is also a good way to see how a woman is going to respond. Making eye contact and holding it most likely indicates an interest. Avoiding eye contact likely means she's just not that interested. Don't take it personally, she could be in a relationship or just not looking to get into something right now. Either way, it's the equivalent of seeing whether the coast is clear or it's time to steer clear. A lady who is looking around a room is likely to be open to getting to know someone and meeting people.

2. Focus only on her.

It may go without saying, but if you're open to everyone, generally you're going to get no one. Women want to feel special, and how are they going to feel special if you're expressing interest and hitting on everyone in the room? That's great that you're open to other women, but save the socializing and flirting with others for after you've gone up to the woman you want. If she rejects you, then go up to someone else that you're interested in. But don't do it before. If you want her affection, you've got to earn it, and no one wants to give their affection to someone who is putting off the impression that they'll take affection anywhere they can get it.

3. Don't talk about yourself.

Well, you can talk about yourself a little. Only asking her questions about herself will eventually come off as an interview, which is no fun for anyone, or like you're trying to pry your way into knowing everything about her, which is creepy. Even worse than this approach however is talking about yourself constantly. If a woman wants to get to know you, they'll ask you questions too. Nothing is more of a turn off than someone bragging or filling up a conversation with endless information about themselves. It's the worst way to promote yourself and it'll guarantee that she will just want to go and talk to someone who listens as well as they speak.

4. Be a nice guy.

If you're already a nice guy, great. If you're not a nice guy, maybe it's time to turn over a new leaf. You've heard that saying, nice guys finish last? Well they don't. Nice guys get the nice girls, and the nice girls love a nice guy because no one, absolutely no one, wants to date, talk to, or go to bed with a jerk. So be nice.

5. Make her feel beautiful.

Too many guys try to undermine a woman. Like that's going to make her want you! It's not so crazy to think that maybe making a woman feel beautiful would make her like you. The fact of the matter is, if you make her feel good, she's going to treasure you. You'll get to stick around, and she'll likely be interested in making you feel good too.

6. Be yourself.

It sounds cliche, but being yourself is enough. Don't use pick up lines, don't try to be suave, and don't brag about your car or how much you make. A true woman will not be impressed by any of it. She'll high tail it away from you as fast as she can. On the other hand, if you are honest and authentic, she'll likely want to know more and be intrigued. You won't come off as shallow or a jerk, and she'll want to learn more about who this handsome and down to earth guy talking to her is.

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Exude confidence and make eye contact
Exude confidence and make eye contact eligiblemag.com

Exude confidence and make eye contact

Looking away or not being direct communicates a lack of self confidence, and if you're not confident in you, why should she be? Making eye contact is also a good way to see how a woman is going to respond. Making eye contact and holding it most likely indicates an interest. Avoiding eye contact likely means she's just not that interested. Don't take it personally, she could be in a relationship or just not looking to get into something right now. Either way, it's the equivalent of seeing whether the coast is clear or it's time to steer clear. A lady who is looking around a room is likely to be open to getting to know someone and meeting people.

Focus only on her
Focus only on her telegraph.uk

Focus only on her

It may go without saying, but if you're open to everyone, generally you're going to get no one. Women want to feel special, and how are they going to feel special if you're expressing interest and hitting on everyone in the room? That's great that you're open to other women, but save the socializing and flirting with others for after you've gone up to the woman you want. If she rejects you, then go up to someone else that you're interested in. But don't do it before. If you want her affection, you've got to earn it, and no one wants to give their affection to someone who is putting off the impression that they'll take affection anywhere they can get it.

Don't talk about yourself
Don't talk about yourself datingtruth

Don't talk about yourself

Well, you can talk about yourself a little. Only asking her questions about herself will eventually come off as an interview, which is no fun for anyone, or like you're trying to pry your way into knowing everything about her, which is creepy. Even worse than this approach however is talking about yourself constantly. If a woman wants to get to know you, they'll ask you questions too. Nothing is more of a turn off than someone bragging or filling up a conversation with endless information about themselves. It's the worst way to promote yourself and it'll guarantee that she will just want to go and talk to someone who listens as well as they speak.

Be a nice guy
Be a nice guy pepperific

Be a nice guy

If you're already a nice guy, great. If you're not a nice guy, maybe it's time to turn over a new leaf. You've heard that saying, nice guys finish last? Well they don't. Nice guys get the nice girls, and the nice girls love a nice guy because no one, absolutely no one, wants to date, talk to, or go to bed with a jerk. So be nice.

Make her feel beautiful
Make her feel beautiful manordentist

Make her feel beautiful

Too many guys try to undermine a woman. Like that's going to make her want you! It's not so crazy to think that maybe making a woman feel beautiful would make her like you. The fact of the matter is, if you make her feel good, she's going to treasure you. You'll get to stick around, and she'll likely be interested in making you feel good too.

Be yourself
Be yourself shutterstock

Be yourself

It sounds cliche, but being yourself is enough. Don't use pick up lines, don't try to be suave, and don't brag about your car or how much you make. A true woman will not be impressed by any of it. She'll high tail it away from you as fast as she can. On the other hand, if you are honest and authentic, she'll likely want to know more and be intrigued. You won't come off as shallow or a jerk, and she'll want to learn more about who this handsome and down to earth guy talking to her is.