The life of an advice columnist is full of angst filled letters from the lovelorn. Because most of the people who write my column are female, this post is oriented towards women. It’s dedicated to those women who may be wondering if the guy they are dating has the potential to be Mr. Right, or if he should be tossed into the nearest trash pile.
Ladies, I’m of the mind that men show us pretty early on who they are and what we can expect out of them. There are literally hundreds of warning signs that a dating partner is not The One. If a woman knows how to interpret a man’s behaviors and words, she can save herself from a lot of heartbreak and drama.
However, most often women ignore the red flags they see, due to an overwhelming desire to have “a relationship”. Naive young ladies, inexperienced with men and dating, may also miss the red flags warning of potential doom because they have no idea what the words they hear or the behavior they see really means.
You will know that he’s not The One if he does or says any of the five things listed (to see the full article, click graphic above that says VIEW ALL 5 PHOTOS):