Will he cheat on you? - a 7-question quiz to find out if he's the cheating kind

Will he cheat on you?  Take the Will He Cheat Quiz and find out.
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Some men are more likely to cheat than others. Studies indicate that at least 50% to 70% of men have cheated, or will cheat on their mates. Is your husband or boyfriend one of these potential cheaters?

Take the Will He Cheat Quiz and you can easily find out. The 7-question “Will He Cheat Quiz” which I designed several years ago, is a short, but accurate quiz that can help women find out if they are involved with a potential cheater. The “Will He Cheat Quiz” looks at key things about a man - his life experiences, family history, character flaws or personality traits - which indicate that he may be especially prone to infidelity. Also known as the “Potential Cheaters Quiz,” the “Will He Cheat Quiz” will tell you if your spouse or significant other is the “cheating kind” who might one day break your heart.

The Will He Cheat? Quiz
© copyright 2004 - 2009

by infidelity expert Ruth Houston
founder of InfidelityAdvice.com, and author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs

1. Does he thrive on adventure?

2. Did he have a great deal of sexual experience prior to your relationship?

3. Does he have lots of female friends?

4. Does he have male friends who are cheating on their wives or girlfriends?

5. Did one of his parents cheat?

6. Did he cheat in any of his past relationships?

7. Does he feel that infidelity is really no big deal?

What Your Answers Mean:

1. Some men enjoy all the suspense, deception, excitement and intrigue that go along with infidelity. They'll cheat just for the "thrill of the chase."

2. Studies reveal that men who led very active sex lives before finally settling down in a marriage or committed relationship are more likely to engage in sex outside their primary relationship. Don't expect a leopard to change his spots.

3. Close friendships with other women are a common starting point for infidelity. The closer their friendship, the greater the likelihood is that it will develop into emotional infidelity, which is a stepping stone to sexual infidelity.

4. Never underestimate the power of peer pressure. If his friends are cheating, he'll soon be cheating too.

5. Infidelity tends to run in families. No, it’s not hereditary, but children who grow up in households with cheating parents are often programmed to follow in their footsteps, considering infidelity to be the norm.

6. "Once a cheater, always a cheater." There are exceptions, but statistically speaking, if he cheated once, he's more likely to do it again. His history will probably repeat itself.

7. If he doesn't feel that infidelity is wrong, his behavior will reflect his beliefs.

© copyright 2004 - 2009 by Ruth Houston. All rights reserved.

Generally speaking, the more “yes” answers, you have, the more likely he is to cheat on you. But even if you only you have one yes answer, you still have cause for concern. There are two things you should do.

2 Things to Do Next

THere are two things you can right now if you had one or more yes answers when you took the Will He Cheat Quiz:

1. Find out exactly what kind of cheater you’re dealing with.

All cheaters are not alike. Is your husband or boyfriend a Potential Cheater? a Common Garden-Variety Cheater? an Experienced Cheater? or a Hard Core Cheater?

To determine this we need to take a closer look at your answers to the Will He Cheat Quiz.
Especially since some of the answers carry more weight than others.

To find out what your answers mean, and determine exactly which type of cheater you’re dealing with click here, or see the article entitled What Kind Of Cheater Are You Dealing With?

The information there will help you evaluate your answers to the Will He Cheat Quiz .  You’ll find out whether you’re dealing with a Potential Cheater, a Common Garden-Variety Cheater, an Experienced Cheater, or a Hard Core Cheater. There are different strategies for dealing with each one, which can help you avoid a lot of hurt, humiliation and heartbreak later on.

2. Find Out How to Deal With a Potential Cheater

If your spouse or significant other is a potential cheater, you’ll want to know what to do, and how to handle the situation. There are precautions you can take to decrease the likelihood that he will actually have an affair.

Request a free copy of the special infidelity report entitled How to Deal with a Potential Cheater.  E-mail InfidelityAdvice@gmail.com  with “Potential Cheater Report – Xm,” in the subject line.

An Extra Precaution You Can Take

As an extra precaution, you might also want to invest in a copy of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs ($29, Lifestyle Publications), which lists practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs women usually overlook. This book will help you spot the early warning signs of infidelity, and keep you from being the last to know.  Order your copy from www.OrderIsHeCheatingBook.com or from Amazon.com, or from 1-800-431-1579

*** © copyright 2009 Ruth Houston

Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on infidelity issues in the news. She is the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, the founder of InfidelityAdvice.com and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog.

For more information about signs of infidelity, cheating men, or extramarital affairs, see:

The Top 10 Reasons Why Men and Women Cheat

 Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell  (free tip sheet)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs  (book)

13 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

The Top 10 Signs of Infidelity

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate

When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate?

3 Things a Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports