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Online resources to help you catch or monitor a cheating mate

These 3 types of online services can help you if you have -- or think you have a cheating mate.
These 3 types of online services can help you if you have -- or think you have a cheating mate.
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If you’re dealing with a cheating mate, there are 3 types of online resources that can help you in almost any situation you’re likely to encounter – from discovery to recovery.

Whether you suspect infidelity, are trying to cope with your partner’s affair, or are trying to reconcile with a cheating mate, in each of the situations described below, an online service can help.

• You want to find out the identity of the person your spouse or significant other is cheating with. An online reverse phone search or reverse e-mail search can help.

• Your mate has been making or receiving suspicious phone calls and you want to know who the phone number belongs to. A reverse phone search can help.

• You want additional details or personal information about the person your spouse or significant other is cheating with. An online background search can help.

• You want to know if your spouse’s lover has enough assets to make it worth your while to sue for alienation of affection. An online background search can help.

• You trying to reconcile with a cheating mate and you want to know whether he or she is still communicating with their lover behind your back. A reverse phone search and a reverse e-mail search can help.

• Your spouse or significant other is sending or receiving incriminating e-mails and you want to know who the e-mail address belongs to. A reverse e-mail search can help.

• You want to know where your spouse’s lover lives or works. An online background search can help.

• You want to know the marital status of the person your mate is seeing behind your back. An online background search can help.

• You want to know if the person your spouse or significant other has gotten involved with has a criminal background. An online background search can help.

• You’ve found suspicious or unfamiliar phone numbers in your partner’s cell phone log or bill, or among his or her personal effects, and you want know who these numbers belong to. A reverse phone search can help.

How These Types of Online Services Work

As you can see, in each of the situations above, there is an online resource that can help.

All 3 types of services - reverse phone search services, reverse e-mail search services, as well as services that allow you to do online background checks - can be accessed from be accessed from your own computer or laptop, in the privacy of your own home.

All are completely confidential, and unless you tell, no one will know that you checked the person out.

They are affordably priced -- between $15 and $40, depending on which type of service you need. As with anything else, some services providers are reputable and some are not. So check the reputation of the service you plan to use in advance.

NOTE: You can find recommendations for each of these 3 types of services, along with a list of articles with practical infidelity advice, and free infidelity tip sheets and special reports at the end of this article.

Reverse Phone Number Searches
If there are numbers you don’t recognize on your caller ID, cell phone bill, programmed into your spouse or significant other's cell phone, or you find unfamiliar numbers scribbled on scraps of paper or the back of business cards, you can do a reverse phone number search to find out whose number it is. Somes services provide searches for land lines only Other services provide searches for cell phones, too. For an additional fee, some services even allow you to run an online background check, too. For a recommendation, check the list below.

Reverse E-Mail Address Searches
If your spouse or significant other is sending or receiving e-mails from someone you don’t know, a reverse e-mail search will let you know who the e-mail address belongs to. There is one online service of this type which gives you access to the largest e-mail search database on the internet. For a recommendation, check the list below. This particular service is also used by law enforcement, government officials, lawyers, private investigators and many others.

Online Background Checks
An online background check can give you additional details about the person your partner is cheating with. If you already have the name of the person your spouse or significant other is seeing behind your back, you can run a background check for more information about who this person is. (If you don’t have a name yet, use a reverse phone search or reverse e-mail search services above to track down the person’s name, then do an online background check.) Some services allow you to access marriage and divorce records, property records, both state and Federal criminal records and more.

These 3 types of online resources will come in handy if you have – or think you have -- a cheating mate. Links to 3 trusted and reputable online resources that I use, and recommend to my clients are below, along with other helpful infidelity articles, and free infidelity tip sheets and special reports.
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*** © copyright 2010 Ruth Houston / All Rights Reserved.

Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com  

For infidelity resources, articles with practical infidelity advice, and free infidelity tip sheets and special reports, see the list below:

Before Searching for Signs of Infidelity, Prepare Yourself for What You Might Find
Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell
(free tip sheet)
What Should I Do If I Think He or She Is Cheating on Me?
You Think He’s Cheating on You - Is It Intuition or Insecurity?
Reverse Phone Search - www.CheatingSpousePhoneSearch.com  
Reverse E-mail Address Search - www.CheatingSpouseEMailSearch.com
Online Background Checks - www.CheatingSpouseBackgroundCheck.com  
Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs
(soft cover book)
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)
The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010
Why Most Cheaters Don’t Get Caught
When Should You Hire a Private Investigator to Check Out a Cheating Mate?
Go or Stay? - How to Decide Whether or Not to Give a Cheater a Second Chance
(free tip sheet)
What Are The Major Obstacles to Taking a Cheater Back?
Rebuilding Your Marriage After He's Cheated on You - 12 Mistakes to Avoid
How Wives with Cheating Husbands Can Gain the Upper Hand
(free tip sheet)
How to Legally and Financially Get Revenge on a Cheating Mate (free infidelity report)
Which States Allow a Wife To Sue a Husband’s Mistress and What Does This Involve?
More Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

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