9 signs of infidelity that show up AFTER Valentine's Day

Jewelry and other gifts of a personal nature that
suddenly appear after Valentine's Day can be a
sign of a cheating mate.
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There are 9 signs of infidelity that typically show up AFTER Valentine’s Day, if you have a cheating spouse or significant other.

As the final phase of my 7th Annual Valentine’s Day Infidelity Awareness Campaign, I’ve listed 9 post-Valentine’s Day signs of infidelity which can help you confirm the existence of an affair, if you have a cheating mate.

1. A hidden gift discovered before Valentine’s Day that has disappeared, but wasn’t given to you.

2. Receipts for the purchase of 2 identical gifts. (If he bought 2 heart-shaped diamond pendants and you got one, who did he give the other one to?)

3. Receipts or credit card statements for candy, flowers, jewelry, lingerie you didn’t personally receive. (Who got $175 worth of lingerie from Victoria’s Secret?)

4. Sales receipts, charge slips or credit card statements for gifts that don’t correspond with the gift he gave you. (If you got flowers and candy, who did he give jewelry to?

5. A thank you note or e-mail to or from your spouse for a Valentine’s Day gift you know nothing about.

6. Gifts of a personal nature, like jewelry or lingerie, that suddenly appear after Valentine’s Day, which she attempts to pass off as items she purchased for herself. ( Ask her to show you the sales receipt for that bracelet she’s suddenly been wearing everyday.)

7. Restaurant receipts or charge slips dated February 13th,14th,15th showing meals for two that didn’t include you.

8. Credit card receipts for a hotel stay dated the day before, the day after, or on Valentine’s Day. (Does the time stamp correspond with the time your spouse or significant other was missing in action? )

9. Phone bills or cell phone logs showing suspicious calls made early morning or late evening on Valentine’s Day.

© copyright 2007-2010 Ruth Houston, founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com

Never Confront a Cheater Without Additional Proof

Do NOT confront a cheating spouse or significant other solely on the basis of the 9 signs of infidelity listed above. See What Should I Do if I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

If you don’t already have it, you need to get additional proof. But knowing what to look for is the key. See 13 Things Everyone Should Know about Signs of Infidelity

For starters, request a free copy of the infidelity report below.

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For help in spotting the signs of a cheating mate, send for a free copy of the special infidelity report Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell, by e-mailing InfidelityInfo@gmail.com  with 21 ways-Xm in the subject line.

A Good Infidelity Reference Book Can Help You Quickly Get Proof

You should also strongly consider investing in a good infidelity reference book like Is He Cheating on You?” – 829 Telltale Signs. Described as a “cheater’s worst nightmare,” this book covers practically every known sign of infidelity, including the subtle signs people usually overlook.

Despite the title, most of the signs in the book apply to both cheating women and cheating men.

This $29 infidelity reference book will serve you well for many years to come. See The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010.

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*** © copyright 2010 Ruth Houston All Rights Reserved.

Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com  and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

For more information about signs of infidelity, cheating spouses, and extramarital affairs, see

How Valentine’s Day Flowers Led to the Discovery of 3 Extramarital Affairs

Valentine's Day Gifts Will Expose Many Cheating Mates

Why the Wife is Still the Last to Know

3 Things a Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know

Is She Cheating? Most Husbands and Boyfriends Find Out Too Late

What Should I Do If I Think He or She is Cheating on Me?

13 Things Everyone Should Know About Signs of Infidelity

Is He Cheating? – Is She Cheating? 21 Ways You Can Tell (free infidelity report)

The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2010

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (softcover book)

Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)

Free Infidelity Tip Sheets and Special Reports

Infidelity Resources to Help You Catch a Cheating Mate