6 signs YOU may be the other woman in his life - Are you dating a married man? - National infidelity

Have you ever considered that the man you’re dating may be cheating – not ON you, but WITH you?

You could unknowingly be his mistress - the other woman in his life.

Dating deception is very common these days. It’s common for married men to misrepresent themselves as single men, especially if they have no qualms about cheating on their mate.

Many single men in committed relationships also misrepresent themselves as men who are available to date.

And it’s up to the single woman who gets involved with one of these deceptive men to find out the truth on her own, before she gets too deeply involved.

Is The Man You're Seeing Really Single?

Are you absol.utely sure that the man you’ve been dating really single?

Or could he be a married man who’s cheating on his wife?

If you don’t know for sure, there’s a very strong possibility that you could unknowingly be his mistress – the other woman in his life. According to one study almost 20% of women are unknowingly dating married men.

Could you be one of these unsuspecting single women?

If you’re a single woman looking for a committed relationship, the last thing you want is to find out is that you’ve given your heart to a married man who’s cheating on his wife.

How certain are you about the marital status of the man you’re dating? Are there any signs which indicate that he’s among the 1 in 5 men who claim to be single when they're not?

6 Signs He May Be a Married Man

Married men pretending to be single often give clues about their true marital status without realizing what they have done.

Knowing what to look for is the key.

Keep your eyes and ears open for telltale signs below.

The 6 signs below are clues that he might be married or in a committed relationship:

1. He won’t give you his home number. He has a variety of excuses for why you can only call him on his cell phone or at work.

2. He only calls or e-mails you from work, or at odd times of the day – very in the early morning or in the wee hours of the night.

3. He’s unavailable on weekends, holidays, or other times when his family might be around.

4. He’s overly secretive about his family and friends.

5. He comes to your place fairly often, , but never takes you to his. In fact he won’t give you his home address or tell you exactly where he lives.

6. When you go out, together, he takes you to private, out-of-the-way places, rather than popular places where everyone else goes, so he won't be spotted by anyone who knows him or his wife.

This free tip sheet provides guidelines on how to tell the fake bachelors and married men who are cheating, from the genuinely single men. For your FREE copy of this tip sheet with all 20 signs, send an e-mail to InfidelityInfo@gmail.com with “married man-Xm” in the subject line.

Another Way to Check Him Out

There’s another way you can check him out to make sure you’re not the other woman in his life, before you get to deeply involved.

You can always run an online background check on him to verify what he’s told you about himself, or find out any information about him that he’s trying to hide.

Nowadays, with the internet, there are numerous online background check services that are affordable, and can help you discreetly find out almost anything about your date that you want to know. Just make sure you’re using a reliable service. www.CheatingSpouseBackgroundCheck.com is one reliable one that I usually recommend.

The best part about running an online background check on your date is that it’s affordable (less that $50, 100% confidential, and can be done from the privacy of your own home. And unless you choose to tell him, he’ll never know you checked him out.

If you find out he’s lied to you about his marital status, or anything else in his life, you will have saved yourself from a lot of hurt, humiliation and heartbreak down the road.

For more information about single woman and cheating men, or how to safeguard your relationship from infidelity, visit www.NationalInfidelity.com or check out the articles in the list below

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Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

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