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Rescue Dating for Women

May 7, 6:27 PMSF Relationship Matchmaking ExaminerMelinda Maximova
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Let’s face it, dating isn’t as easy for a woman in her 30s and 40s as it was for her in her 20s. Remember when she didn’t even have to try to wrap a man around her little finger? Men were willing to kiss her feet and make her the princess she thought herself to be, but once he began to grow into his own power, he no longer wanted to be the one begging for attention. Times changed; the power balance shifted. Men get older and more powerful, while women seem to be losing ground in the dating department. Fair? - Of course not. But if millions of smart, good looking, and capable women find themselves wondering why they can’t keep a guy, chances are they’ve turned a blind eye to the Power Shift phenomenon. Chances are they are at its mercy. Power Shift: Rescue Dating for Women, helps women understand the power shift and give them tips to change their relationship strategies so that the balance will swing back in their direction. Power Shift will help women reclaim their femininity without giving up their right to operate a power saw or run a board room. It will empower the spectrum of women in their mid 30s and 40s to find romance on their own terms.

Most women have little idea how men really think. Lots of wonderful women have a hard time finding and keeping Mr Right. It doesn’t have to be this way, and if 30 and 40 year old women are ready to get their head out the clouds, Power Shift: Rescue Dating For Women, dishes out a little tough love and shows women how to take the power back and get what they want in the process. The book takes on the issue of why men like dating younger, and tells it's female readers to act like a woman if they want to attract a man. Many readers may start to cringe as their “sexist” alarms go off, however, through humor and case studies, Power Shift: Rescue Dating For Women gives a road map for overcoming the pitfalls of the Power Shift phenomenon so that women can date successfully in their 30s and 40s and find, and keep, a good man.
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Women in their mid-30s and 40s still expect men to fall all over them like they did when they were 23 and become indignant when they don’t. They are shocked and appalled that they no longer have power over men like they did before, and they dismiss him the minute he displays un-chivalrous behavior. But what they don’t understand is that men realize their own power in their late 30s -- they become more financially stable, more ruggedly handsome and walk with confidence and wisdom resulting from age -- and have a line of women waiting to fill her shoes when she acts out in fits of entitlement. Men now have options. And she will have many more men in her future that will easily dismiss her unless she realizes that she is no longer the only prize. He now, is a prize too -- and she better start jumping through a few hoops of her own if she wants to catch a really great guy and reel him onto the boat.

And the sooner a woman realizes this the better; it won’t get any easier. Think about the senior centers where the geeky guy in college who never could get a girl is now being fought over on the dance floor and competed for with casseroles in his 70s. If a man retains his looks, health and god forbid a full head of hair, he should be prepared to beat the women off with a stick. By the time women reach 50 they figure this out and it is a level playing field. But women in their mid-30s and 40s are not clued in yet. They still think they have the upper-hand. Power Shift: Rescue Dating For Women, prepares women in their 30s and 40s so that they won’t be childless at 39 still waiting for prince charming to sweep in and rescue them. Women in their mid-30s and 40s have to be proactive and smart and need to step out of their gilded carriages if they really want to get a good man.

To read more: Power Shift: Rescue Dating for Women,

For more information, contact Melinda Maximova, matchmaker with Perfect Search melinda@theperfectsearch.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

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