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Are you dating guys with game?

May 4, 6:38 PMSF Relationship Matchmaking ExaminerMelinda Maximova
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As reported on Oprah.com, San Francisco was rated the #5 best city in America to meet single men over 35. San Jose was #1 and Fremont, #6. So why do so many Bay Area women complain about finding and keeping a great guy?

It is because women in the Bay Area want “Guys With Game”. They want a cool, smooth, female magnet who melts her with his quick wit, humors her with his quick tongue, and well… leaves her with his quick exit. Forget Neil Strauss’ book, “The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pick-up Artists”. If Bay Area women want a really great guy, the kind who will love her faithfully and marry her, she should go for the “Guys With No Game”. These guys may have two left feet on the mating dance floor but “Guys With No Game” make great husbands.

Remember, the “Guys With Game” always have game – even when they are married, so expecting them to shed their super powers is like telling Super Man he can no longer fly. The word is “Game”, and by definition a game is a challenge, and a game is fun, and men who are good at it, have not only the admiration from their peers and the credibility of their prey but also the longing from those with whom they have not yet conquered. So when you go for the one who swept you off the floor and whisked you away with his charm and smooth moves, you have essentially married a female-netting champion. He is an Olympian with so many gold medal notches on his bedpost that his face adorns the Kellogg’s box of love. Be very careful what you wish for.

On the other hand, the “Guys With No Game” may still want to look at other women but you can be rest assured that if given the chance he will most certainly fail. You’ve seen him in action. You know his muddled moves will drive even the most desperate “cat in heat” away because you remember when he laid his lines on you. And you know that even if he does get tempted he will come running back to you after the inevitable rebuff because your love for him has to do with his kindness, generosity, and strength, not his game. You love him for all the qualities that do make for a good husband.

For more information contact Melinda Maximova, matchmaker with Perfect Search melinda@theperfectsearch.com

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