Search articles from thousands of Examiners
Write for us
Salt Lake City Family and Parenting SF Parenting Teens Examiner
SF Parenting Teens Examiner

Freedom: It comes with a price

August 5, 8:30 AMSF Parenting Teens ExaminerRichard Hills
Comment Print Email RSS Subscribe

Subscribe


Get alerts when there is a new article from the SF Parenting Teens Examiner. Read Examiner.com's terms of use.
Email Address


  Include other special offers from Examiner.com
Terms of Use


Is he really ready?

He’s 17, and he’s chomping at the bit to get behind the wheel. He’s gone through the drivers training classes, and so far he’s done fine on his drivers permit – now it’s time for him to go solo, that's when you hear; “Can I borrow the car Friday night?”

What’s a concerned parent supposed to do? You know you need to show some trust in him, you know that this moment is pivotal to his growth and independence. You also know that the CDC says that teenagers his age account for 30% ($19 million) of the total cost of vehicle injuries (28% among females of that age).
The CDC also reports:

“Among teen drivers, those at especially high risk for motor
vehicle crashes are:
• Males: In 2005, the motor vehicle death rate for male
drivers and passengers ages 16 to 19 was more than one and a half times that of their female counterparts.
• Teens driving with teen passengers: The presence of teen passengers increases the crash risk of unsupervised teen drivers. This risk increases with the number of teen passengers.
• Newly licensed teens: Crash risk is particularly high during the first year that teenagers are eligible to drive.”

So, what do you do? You let him use the car Friday night. Yes, you’ll probably stay up until he arrives safe and sound, but you can breathe a little easier because you required him to go through an accredited Graduated Driver Licensing program (GDL). You understand that because of this type of licensing he must be back before nightfall (until he has more experience and reached full licensure), and that because he went through a GDL program, he has reduced his chances of an accident up to 43%.

You made sure he had the best training – you’ve talked with him and taught him well – now it’s time to let the wings flex (even if it is in a graduated fashion).

 

For more info: Need some additional tips and advice? Check out teendriving.com

 

Add a Comment

Name:


Comments:
characters left

NOTE: Do Not Alter These Fields:

Vancouver 2010
Get exclusive coverage from Examiners on the Winter Games in Vancouver.

Recent Articles

Tuesday, February 9, 2010
So, do you talk to your teens? Do you have open communication with them? We all know how important communication is, not only with our teens but …
Friday, January 29, 2010
OK, I don’t normally write about going out to see a movie, because that’s pretty common and you can see a movie pretty much any time. …