Help teens deal with the death of Michael Jackson

June 26, 3:38 PMMiami Parenting Teens ExaminerRobin McDaniel

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Michael Jackson

Michael Jackson died Thursday at UCLA Medical Center in Los Angeles California. Although he was 50 years old, his music was very popular among teenagers all over the world, including the Miami, Florida area where the music scene is hot. Teenagers are grieving and may need some help with understanding and dealing with the death of this popular pop star. Here is how you can help teens deal with the death of the King of Pop, Michael Jackson.

Sit down and talk with your teenager. Ask them how they feel about the death of Michael Jackson. Let them talk through the issue. No matter how you feel about the former pop star, let your kids vent. They need an outlet.

• Encourage your kids to watch the tribute to Michael Jackson on Music Television (MTV), where they are previewing all of his music.
• Find out what details your teens know about the death and try to help them clear up any misconceptions.
• Tell your kids to write down how they feel in a journal, poem or song. Writing helps kids to get feelings out that they may not be able to talk about.
• Let your kids download and listen to Michael Jackson's music if this will help them to feel better. They might also want to watch his videos on YouTube. They might also want to visit the Michael Jackson website.
• Explain to teens that it is ok to feel a sense of grief and cry if they feel the need. Often music icons, movie and television stars help us to make connections in our lives. When they are gone, we may feel a sense of loss. This is perfectly normal.
•  Tell teens to talk with their friends and family about how they feel. Sit down with them and watch any memorials or important updates together.
• Talk to teens about death and how it is a natural part of life. Explain that it is sometimes sudden, but when this happens there is usually no suffering. Let them vent their fears on this subject.

Although it may seem insignificant to adults, teens often make deep connections with their musical icons. It is important that they learn how to deal with the pain in a positive and constructive manner. This may be the first time they are really dealing with death and they will need your support. Above all, be non-judgemental and open to better help them through this difficult time.