Make sure your sitter is well-informed.
You have found the perfect baby-sitter, and she will be at your home in a few hours for her first time with your child. You are looking forward, with mixed emotions, to your first night out in a while. What does the sitter need to know about your child, your home, and your requirements in order to make it an ideal evening?
Before she arrives, there are things that you can do to help her. Make sure your child is in a clean, dry diaper, and, if you are leaving near bedtime, bathe your child and dress him for bed. Leave food that is specifically for the sitter. Snacks such as popcorn, chips, soda, ice cream, and sandwiches are much appreciated. See that she understands that these are for her, and not necessarily for your child.
Have written instructions for her to follow. A few of the things to consider are medications, bedtime routines and habits, pacifier use, and phone and fridge privileges She will need to know your rules regarding TV and video game use, and what is considered acceptable play behavior. Post emergency numbers for her as well. Include the numbers of a close neighbor or relative, poison control, the doctor, and your cell phones. Be sure to add the address of your home. She will need it if she does need to call for emergency help. There are printable forms available online for use. Money and Kids has a good one, and Phoneababysitter.com has three.
As suggested in an earlier article, the sitter will arrive a few minutes early to discuss expectations for the night. When she gets there, take her on a tour of the house, checking that doors and windows are locked securely, and pointing out smoke and burglar alarms as well as the fire extinguisher. Show her where the written information is kept that you have ready for her.
Call home one time while you are gone. You will want to know how things are going, but keep in mind that she is busy with your child, and engaging her in a phone conversation converts her attention from him to you.
Make an effort to get back home on time when the evening is finished. When you arrive home, talk with her to find out about her evening, and how things went for both her and your child. Ask about any unforeseen problems that occurred, and make a plan to cover that before the next night out. Escorting her home is a good idea. Her parents will appreciate knowing that she will arrive home safely.
Much more goes into the planning of the perfect night out than meets the eye when you have a little one at home. Having the ideal sitter is only part of it. Making sure to have everything set up and ready for her will make for an excellent experience for all!
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