Camilla Gray-Nelson with a client at Dairydell Canine Center
For a dog with behavior problems, give him what he craves - membership in a social group with a strong leader. This piece of advice, given by Camilla Gray-Nelson, is especially geared for women whose dogs are challenging them with behavioral problems.
Gray-Nelson grew up on a dairy farm in Petaluma where she learned about animal social behavior purely from observation. Today, the family farm is now Dairydell Canine Center, a doggie dude ranch and training center. Services range from day care and boarding to training classes and herding activities. Even the center's design grew from dog personalities and play styles.
Gray-Nelson says, "We have bunk houses for the more nervous, non-humpers and other bunk houses for the "cowboys" who like to wrestle and play." A salt-water pool satisfies the swimmers which can be followed with a trip to the grooming salon.
But a primary focus of Dairydell Canine is their natural training philosophy. Using voice control methods and positive reinforcement, Gray-Nelson is able to quietly communicate to a dog that she is the leader and there are boundaries of behavior they must comply with.
Gray-Nelson says, "I especially like to teach women this method by pointing out to them that strength is more persuasive than weakness in the eyes of a dog. Be less emotional and operate from a core of strength. Be firm, fair and friendly similar to a kindergarten teacher."
Gray-Nelson urges women to "stop the chatter." She recommends the power of quiet and follow-through. Use what dogs love: treats, fun, praise, touch. "Dogs want to please themselves and receiving verbal praise from you is pleasurable to them."
As for treats, Gray-Nelson quips, "Dogs will follow a cookie until it's gone, but will follow a leader forever."
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