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H.M. Weimar is a published author. She has been divorced twice and is the mother or five children with one grandchild. She has lived in the Pacific...

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  • Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D. 2 years ago
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    Great comments! Marriage does seem to take our stress, unfortunately. As you point out, what happens to one happens to both. In fact, to push that a little further, the biggest psychological piece of a marriage is becoming a unit, supporting each other but stronger together than apart.

    Indeed, the most important part of your message: it takes more energy to get divorced than to stay married.

    If people work on a marriage, once they get it going, it tends to become easier. Divorce, on the other hand, tends to be a huge amount of energy that only grows. Once it peaks, there are remnants for years, for life if a child is involved.

    Thanks for the reminders of not letting outside influences ruin the relationship!

    Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D.
    author of Save The Marriage
    SaveTheMarriage.com

  • HM Weimar 2 years ago
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    Too many people let those outside influences affect the marriage because we are suppose to depend on each other for strength. What I think people don't realize is that instead of letting it pull you apart, they should use it to pull together.

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