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Oakland Breaking Up

Girlfriend left when he got someone else pregnant - can he ever get her back?

Dear Deborrah:Me and my boo have been together for 10 years. A few years ago when we broke up for a short period I slept with a female I met at a...
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Divorce - Why women leave and how men can create better relationships

Dear Deborrah: I just saw your You Tube video about Why Women Leave Men. I do recognize some of the things you said in the video, however, since...
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Dating tips: will the "no contact" after a breakup rule work for me?

Dear Deborrah: My ex left me over 18 months ago, but he has come back and fourth into my life until recently. Just a few weeks ago he cut off all...
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How do I win back my amazing boyfriend?

  • #getting dumped
  • November 7, 2011
Dear Deborrah: For almost two years I had a wonderful relationship with a beautiful man. Even when he became an Air Force Officer and we had to do...
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10 Ways For Men to Know She’s Just Not That Into You

Most men are natural hunters, and will pursue the woman of their dreams with a single minded fervor that is unwavering. Every man I’ve ever...
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Dating two years, our relationship is getting kinda lame

  • lame relationships
  • October 17, 2011
Dear Deborrah: I'm writing to you about a two year relationship that I'm in with my girlfriend. She's 31 and I'm a 28 year old male...
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They broke up months ago... should she tell him that she is still in love?

Dear Ms. HeartBeat: I dunno what to do cuz quite awhile ago me and my dream guy broke up after a few months of dating when his family moved from...
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She wants children and he says no - should this boyfriend be dumped?

Dear Deborrah: I am a single 34 year old San Francisco attorney. I can't believe I'm writing an online columnist for advice, but thought I&...
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She is in love with him, but he is not in love with her

Dear Deborrah: I have been seeing my guy for almost a year, and we have been exclusive for almost 5 months. Last night we broke up. You see, I am...
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When your man stares at other women constantly, this is how you handle it!

A visitor to this page asked me to address the issue of men in committed relationships staring at other women. The female advice seeker wanted to...
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