
Duncan James offers the coolest bisexual coming out
Handsome blond hunk pop star Duncan James freely admitted in an interview that will appear in London on Sunday that he is bisexual and has "been in loving relationships with men as well as women."
In an exclusive interview given to Dan Wootten of News of the World, published on Sunday, July 12, the 31-year-old pop singer who was known to be a womanizer (and has a young daughter), says very freely and openly:
"I'm one hundred per cent happy to be bisexual." . . . .
"I’m bisexual. I’ve been in loving relationships with men as well as women – and I’m not ashamed. I was living a secret life. I went through a process of asking what the f*** am I? . . .
"I want to be OUT and say I’ve had relationships with men as well as women."
"But even though I fancy men, I still fancy WOMEN too."
The singer was a member of the band Blue, and he has a 4-year-old daughter named Tianie-Finne with former girlfriend Claire Granger. In the past he has had trysts with Geri Halliwell, Tara Palmer Tomkinson, Martine McCutcheon and ex-Big Brother winner Kate Lawler.
Now, his band is on their way to a comeback, and he is making some grand statements.
* "Am I gay? Am I straight? Am I bi? That's why I was so frightened about talking. Now, in my early 30s, I know who I am and I'm proud of who I am. I don't want to hide anymore."
* The strict Catholic said he first fell in love with a man eight years ago at the height of his boy band's fame with their hits "All Rise," "Too Close" and "If You Come Back."
* He has told his former girlfriend and his mother, but it took years to do it.
* "Yes, I was labeled a womanizer and yes, I did sleep with a lot of women. But there were tell-tale signs I was that way inclined."* He is concerned that his little girl will be teased in school about her daddy being bisexual.
He said: "Being bisexual as a man is a taboo subject but I'm 100 per cent happy with who I am. If I have a connection with someone on a deep level that is what it's about for me. And if I'm with someone then I am monogamous. I'm sure a lot of gay people would be put off by the thought of having sex with a woman. It's not like that for me. I still find women attractive. In a man or a woman I look for someone who is sensitive and caring. I like someone who has nice features too. I don't feel it's harder to be with a guy. This has been my life now for a long time. It's not a big deal to me anymore. But I've slept with way more women than men. I can still look at women now and think they're sexy. I love being intimate with a woman, I love breasts. I do think girls can be a lot more emotional."
"I know most gay guys think, 'Bi Now, Gay Later' and maybe one day the thought of being with a woman won't work for me. But likewise, maybe the thought of being with a guy might be the same. I might want to settle down with a girl to have a family lifestyle. That appeals to me too."
"Mainly I just want to be happy. I want to be in a long-term relationship and, most importantly, be in love."
COMMENTARY: This is the most amazing admission a famous guy has ever made about being bisexual. He's open, he's understanding, he's not creepy, and he's very honest. There's no confusion to this guy, and he doesn't deny it, like Pink, or play word games like Ricky Martin.
* Read the exclusive interview in News of the World here.
* Here is an Unofficial Duncan James Fan Page.
* Here is the Official Duncan James Fan Site.
* The pop fan page of Duncan James.
* Offer messages to Duncan James himself.
Check out some very hot photos of Duncan James below, as well as some of his great videos (aptly titled "Sooner or Later" and "Frequency"). Also, don't be afraid to leave a fan message at one of his fan sites.













Comments
CONGRATS DUNCAN ^.^ CONGRATS
FIGHT FOR US BI GUYS AND BE STRONG
and i completely agree with the commentary.
Pink and Ricky get on my nerves.
proud of duncan, it takes great courage for him to do that. but, no matter what, i'll still love you!!
Im really proud of you Duncan... im not dissapionted to you dunk because.. I love you! you'll always be in my heart Duncan
That's a great decision! Being bi is not a matter! like duncan, I'm still confuse in my sexual preference. I thought I was the one because I've been in love with same sex which I initially denied and felt i had messed my being. I always felt humiliated everytime they teased and throw a negative critics to a bisexual or homo, then I suddenly realized and ask myself. Why myself affected when someone tease a bi people.
OMG . yukkkkkk
soooooooo sick .
I'm happy that he's happy now..
he's really brave & honest.. I LOVE U..!! ?
i think that he has destroyed up 30% of his fans at least!! ... i am one of em... i loved him his singing he was my idol his stilein everything ! :))) ... but cannot understand ! how can he be attracted by same sex... caNt! IMAO!.... he can have any bitch he wants and he chooses a a man! ! ? MAN so Awkward !!!!!!!! Grow up Dunk!
omg!!i cant believe this reality:))duncan seems to be the goddess for me:)
errr...... this thing will prove that nobody is perfect..even though you are blessed in physical appearance..i still love you duncan:)
He also might want to settle down with a husband to have a family lifestyle. That appeals to many men too!
Actually, I didn't even know who this guy was until Mike wrote this article, but he couldn't have said it better. A welcome change from the dance.
I really enjoyed his interview. I agree with Duncan's and the commentary words completely! I feel the same way about my bisexuality (rearrange a few words since I'm a female), but this still applies. I'm glad he was honest with himself and not denying and lying like Pink and Ricky did (before he finally came out with it).
i'm one of ur supporter , :)
great !!!
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