One of the main sources of toddler tantrums is the frustration that is associated with being unable to clearly communicate their needs. They point and grunt, offer a word that they know or a series of sounds that you may be unable to interpret. As a result, their needs often go unmet. If you have a toddler, you know what happens next, frustration levels skyrocket and the inevitable tantrum ensues.
Signing can help reduce frustration for both children and caregivers. Children can offer a sign to get their needs met instead of throwing a tantrum. This takes the guesswork out for caregivers and removes the stress of trying to figure out what a crying toddler’s needs may be. By using this one simple tool you can meet your toddler’s needs and help them feel less frustrated thereby reducing the overall number of tantrums. Please view the video I have posted from Youtube where an infant lets his mom know that his diaper needs changing. This video should help illustrate the real value in teaching your baby to sign.
Do not be fooled however, signing does not eliminate tantrums. This is because signing actually increases self-confidence and self esteem. Once your child begins to sign, you might find that she will ask for things that are not allowed, like ice cream for breakfast, your computer or cell phone. Be prepared for this by offering choices and setting boundaries. If you are unable to meet these requests, you may still encounter an occasional tantrum.
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