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Would you share your wife? Being a voyeur and swinging trends of today

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Having an open sexual relationship or being a swinger can seem like a very nice deal. These days, more couples are becoming interested to tap into the swingers' lifestyle, sharing that kind of interest with each other by watching swinger videos together or simply sharing their intimate fantasies. Gradually, that interest grows into a much bigger scale. Eventually, the couples will finally decide to take the full plunge into become swingers or the ultimate voyeurs.

Being a Swinger and Voyeur

A swinger is simply a person who is in a committed relationship, yet open to sexual contact with a spouse or partner of another. But usually, the case would be swingers, wherein the couple are both enjoying sexual activity with another couple. One more thing about being a swinger is that at times, it limits itself to being a voyeur. As a voyeur, the person simply enjoys the sight of their naked spouse engaging to sexual intercourse with a spouse of another person or perhaps a threesome with another couple.

Swinger Trends of Today

The swinging lifestyle has a unique set of trends, too. More to the point, swingers form their own society and thus, have cultural goals to follow. While the whole scheme is statistically deviant, the perspective of the swingers solely revolved within the society they have created. Going back to the point, the swinger lifestyle has trends and some of which would be as follows:

Wife Sharing

The trendiest of all swinging trends is wife sharing. However, it makes a big question of itself: Would you share your wife? This is something to rather carefully consider. In the context of swinging, wife sharing is totally a gem of an idea. And just to remind, a vital part of swinging will always be the part where you get to share partners with another couple. That's the whole point. The only real issue here is to whom you are going to share your wife with. The answer: definitely not with friends.

Wife sharing is a definitely a bad idea if you do it with a couple who happens to be your friends. Friendship fades with too much interaction simply because a much deeper level of intimacy is developed. There is the concept of attachment and knowing for a fact that you are only sharing your wife for sexual hedonism can lead to hurtful feelings in the long run. It could be that your wife could develop feelings toward the husband in the other couple or vice the versa. Either way, it's usually a bad idea.

The best resolve to sharing your wife would be to do it with people you are less acquainted with. Also, doing it as a one time thing with one couple to another would be the safest route to take to ensure that no emotional attachments will cultivate through every passing.

Swingers' Party

A principle of marketing speaks that targeting your audience would be the perfect way to increase sales conversions. The same thing applies to swinging; there's no better way to find a swinging couple than to be in a party crowded by swingers themselves. For starters, you can go to a swingers' club in your local area. Just be sure to bring a good amount of lube and condoms - remember where you're going to be at could get quite messy in the best of ways. Once you get the gist of it, and once you're able to gain a few contacts, you could simply set up your own party not necessarily within your home. A hotel room would be nice and in your invite, just inform people to contribute a bit of sum to fully pay the cost of the night's stay. Going by experience, these parties really pan up smokin' hot.

Social Media Ground Zero

If you and your partner both have inhibitions, the social media world could be a perfect place to start. All you have to do is look for communities that welcome swingers and anybody who is interested to eyeball for escorting, dating, and sex. There are even groups of these people in Facebook and you can just sign yourself up into their community and take things from there.

The biggest social groups are:

Twitter: SwingLifeStyle

Facebook: SwingLifeStyle

Being a swinger totally embodies a spontaneous path of life. May you be up for it just as a voyeur or for actual sex engagements, the experience is totally out of the ordinary.

Related Articles:

Threesome and foursome fantasies
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Watching your husband have sex with another woman: A closer look at the benefits
Statistics on a growing trend: Watching your wife have sex with another man

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