Infidelity can strike anyone, at any time.
Despite what some folks would have you believe, record numbers of men are cheating on their mates.
What’s even more alarming, is that 2/3 of the women being cheated on have no idea their spouses or significant others are having an affair.
Will You Be the Next Victim of Infidelity?
Will you be the next woman to get cheated on by her husband or boyfriend?
Do you know how to recognize, or deal with infidelity if it happens to you?
You could be the next unsuspecting victim of infidelity, depending on your answers to the questions below:
1. Have you ever considered the possibility that your husband/ boyfriend might have an affair? See Happy Husbands Cheat Too, and Even Good Marriages are Susceptible to Infidelity.
2. Do you know how to recognize the telltale signs of infidelity? See The Top 10 Signs of Infidelity – and Why You Can’t Rely on These Telltale Signs.
3. Are you familiar with the early warning signs of an affair? See Why the Wife is STILL the Last to Know.
4. Do you know what to do if you suspect your husband/ boyfriend of having an affair? See What Should I Do If I Think He or She Is Cheating on Me? .
5. Do you know your husband/ boyfriend well enough to spot subtle changes in his behavior, habits or routine that could indicate a possible affair? See 17 Subtle Signs That Your Marriage or Relationship is About to End.
6. Do you know what NOT to do if you find out your husband/ boyfriend is having an affair? See What NOT To Do If He’s Cheating on You.
7. Do you know how to tell if your husband/ boyfriend is a potential cheater who's prone to infidelity? See Will He Cheat on You? – a 7 Question Quiz.
8. Have you and your husband/boyfriend ever discussed your feelings about infidelity and extramarital affairs?
9. Do you encourage your husband/ boyfriend to openly discuss any complaints he may have about you or the marriage?
10. Are you and your husband/ boyfriend aware of the everyday situations or circumstances that can inadvertently lead to infidelity? See Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates.
11. Do you periodically do a reality check or take stock of your marriage/relationship to insure that everything is okay? See 40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped.
12. Is there a trusted friend (or a trained professional) whom you can confide in about marital / relationship problems? See Who You Should and Shouldn’t Tell That He’s Cheating on You.
13. Do you know how to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally for the possibility that your husband/ boyfriend might be having an affair? See Before Searching for Signs of Infidelity, Prepare Yourself for What You Might Find.
14. Do you have an “infidelity plan” in place for handling the situation if your husband/ boyfriend should have an affair? See If He’s Cheating, Take a Firm Stand.
15. Have you ever given any serious thought as to what you would do if your husband asked for a divorce? See What Ordinary Women Do When Their Husbands Cheat.
16. If your husband/ boyfriend were cheating, would you know the best way to confront him about his affair? See How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair.
17. Could you keep your emotions in check if you found out your husband/ boyfriend was having an affair? See More Women Are Resorting to Violent Acts of Revenge and 12 Ways Infidelity Can Lead to Domestic Violence.
18. If your husband/ boyfriend had an affair, do you know the best strategy for dealing with the Other Woman? See Will He Leave You for Her?and What You Need to Know About Your Husband’s Mistress and Why.
Infidelity Could Happen to YOU
No one’s marriage or relationship is immune to infidelity. It could happen to anyone – even you. See Happy Husbands Cheat Too, and Even Good Marriages are Susceptible to Infidelity
Your potential for becoming the next victim of infidelity, or for mishandling the situation if it happens to you increase with every “no” answer you have to the questions above. As few as 3 “no” answers put you in the danger zone.
The best thing you can do for yourself and your relationship is to educate yourself about infidelity. Learn to recognize the signs of infidelity – the early warning signs, the signs of an affair in progress, the obvious signs and the subtle signs , as well. See The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2011
Remember, 2/3 of the women being cheated on have no idea their mate is having an affair. The future of your relationship or marriage man depend on whether or not you recognize the telltale signs in time.
Obviously, you can’t deal with the problem of infidelity in your marriage or relationship if you don’t know that the problem exists. See What a Betrayed Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know
If you’re serious about wanting to safeguard your marriage or relationship, start with the articles, free tip sheets, and resources below, or visit www.NationalInfidelity@gmail.com .
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*** © copyright 2011 Ruth Houston / All Rights Reserved.
Ruth Houston is a New York-based infidelity expert who is frequently called on by the media to comment on high profile infidelity and popular infidelity issues in the news. She is the founder of www.InfidelityAdvice.com, the author of Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs, and publishes the Infidelity News and Views blog. To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, or have her speak at your next event, call 718 592-6029 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com
For practical, immediately-usable advice on detecting, or dealing with infidelity, see the list of articles and resources below, or visit www.NationalInfidelity@gmail.com.
Happy Husbands Cheat Too, and Even Good Marriages are Susceptible to Infidelity
Infidelity Traps - 12 Ways People Unintentionally Get Drawn into Cheating on Their Mates
Why the Wife is STILL the Last to Know
What a Betrayed Wife Stands to Lose by Being the Last to Know
The Top 10 Signs of Infidelity – and Why You Can’t Rely on These Telltale Signs
How Good Men End up Cheating on Their Mates
How Can I Keep Him From Cheating on Me?
What Should I Do If I Think He or She Is Cheating on Me?
What NOT To Do If He’s Cheating on You
17 Subtle Signs That Your Marriage or Relationship is About to End
40 Fatal Signs That You’re about to Be Dumped
If He’s Cheating, Take a Firm Stand
7 Ways to Catch Your Cheating Husband Off Guard by Making a Preemptive Strike
How to Get a Cheater to Tell You the Truth about His Affair
Should You Take a Cheater Back? – How to Decide
When to Give Cheater a Second Chance
What Are the Major Obstacles to Taking a Cheater Back?
7 Steps to Catch a Cheating Mate
Is He Cheating? Is She Cheating? – 21 Ways You Can Tell ( free tip sheet)
Is He Cheating on You? - 829 Telltale Signs (soft cover book)
Is He Cheating on You? – 829 Telltale Signs (e-book version with Affair Recovery information)
The Best Investment You Can Make in Your Relationship for 2011
Online Resources to Help You Catch or Monitor a Cheating Mate
FREE Infidelity Tip Sheets for Men and Women with Cheating Mates
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