When searching for love has eluded one for so long that giving up seems like the only sensible solution, do not. Why? Remember there is someone out there for everyone. Whether one is healing after a heartbreak or reentering the dating scene, “your one” is out there. One just has to patiently search or wait for her or him.
Regardless of how futile it feels, hope in finding love should never be misplaced. Never prematurely claim defeat. Victory is always within one’s reach. Hopelessness fueled by negativity often leads to a self-fulfilling condition.
One should never think he or she is a failure at relationships. Every failed relationship is a rehearsal for the real one. Take something away from each one and understand the lessons. Think of it as learning experiences, which are training sessions to succeed. No one should ever think there is no one out there for him or her. Maybe he or she just has not crossed paths yet. If it is a gem of exceptional quality one seeks, try using past experiences to improve “you.” Failed relationships should never be considered as time wasted. View the time and use the lessons as becoming an irresistible catch for a new love.
Hopefulness is not mere wishful thinking. It helps sustain self-esteem and confidence while creating conditions to finding a successful relationship. Giving up on finding love only guarantees failure. How will one find love if he or she does not play the dating game?
Simply put, the only reason one will not find love is by giving up. The right man or woman will not just appear at one’s doorstep. If one is still hopeful for finding a winning catch, start by staying in the game.
Do not let failed relationships or numerous dates leading to nowhere discourage away from a potential match. Remember there is someone out there searching and waiting as well. Resist the temptation of giving up.