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Why should every woman use a vibrator?

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Some women are afraid of vibrators while other women love the heck out of vibrators. As a woman that was once afraid, petrified by vibrators, I would like to admit, it’s a fabulous purchase.

I got my first vibrator two summers after I graduated college( yeah, late bloomer much?). Before investing in a vibrator, I had to be co-dependent on manual stimulation or find some thrill on being seduced or pretending to be seduced by a man.

But what made me invest in a vibrator?

Well, it just so happened a good friend of mine recently got engaged. Her bachelorette party was a sex toy party. Unfortunately, I had a previous engagement the weekend of the sex toy party. The great thing about sex toy parties is that you can make pre-orders for sex toys to go towards the the party host ( my friend). So I did just that.

When I bought the sex toy and it came in the mail, I looked at it in humor. But I didn’t plan on using it alone. I actually bought two sex toys…one for myself and one for my then significant other.

We both happened to have no idea how to open the vibrator to put in the batteries and use the sex toy. So we used the other sex toy that’s not a vibrator at all but sex toy for males ( but trust me it’s for the adventurous type).

Back to the bliss of the vibrator. At some point I learned how to work the vibrator and I did it all on my own. For a woman that’s trying her best to earn her independence, I was proud of myself and that vibrator was amazing.

It’s just the standard vibrator. It can be inserted vaginally or used for clitoris stimulation. When I originally purchased the vibrator, I used it solely for clitoris stimulation, because honestly there’s nothing quite like the real thing.

However, there’s one thing the real thing cannot give you, full control of your pleasure. You can have the way you want it at any time with a vibrator. And there are fancy vibrators out there that look just like( and supposedly feel like) a man’s penis. I’m still a beginner but maybe some day I’ll make the big transition.

Vibrators are great for singles and couples alike. Singles can keep up with college and work without all the stress of finding a way to get laid. Couples can use vibrators to bring their sexual relationships to the next level.

No matter how you define your relationship status, you can reap the benefits of an intimate massager. It gets the job done well and you never have to be ashamed about ordering your sex toy because the sex toys are packaged in standard packaging.

I enjoy pleasuring myself and I even use it to challenge my significant other when we try to out do each other in how much we can sexually please each other. The delightful versatility of a vibrators will amaze you. I promise. And you will have a powerful orgasm time and time again.

If you know how to please yourself sexually, you can teach someone else to better please you. There should be no reason why you cannot enjoy an orgasm every time you have sex. Let it happen. Enjoy it.

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