Anything that grows into something beautiful, powerful and successful starts with change. Some people sabotage otherwise healthy romantic relationships because they fear change. If you want a successful, thriving romantic relationship, you need to learn how to embrace change and commit to the hard work you have to put into your relationship, your partner to make that successful change( your partner should do the same for your relationship, if he/she is not…it’s time to leave and see what destiny has in store for you).
We live in a world where fast paced lifestyles and gossip destroy the things we hold dearest to our hearts.
Instead of running away from change, adapt with change. Don’t fear change. Don’t deny change. Don’t hide from change when it comes to love. By sharing your fears about love and your ideas on how to make your romantic relationship better with your partner, you can only make your love better than ever.
Share those same ideas and fears with outsiders and you’ll destroy the love you always wanted by not accepting your responsibility for what’s right and wrong in your relationship behaviors. You want to fail at your relationship, go right ahead and blame your partner and others for your fear to embrace change.
Blaming your partner is not going to solve any problem. Giving yourself all the credit for why your relationship is going well doesn’t make you any better of leader than your partner. You are a team. Work as a team.
There will be people that secretly hope your relationship fails in order for their relationship to appear more successful ( misery loves company). To keep yourself away from those types of people, you need to surround yourself have to inspire each other to be good relationship partners to your significant others. If you have a friend that loves to cheat on his or her significant other, don’t ask that person for relationship advice. Don’t mention how happy you are in your relationship. Instead, give the person words of wisdom about love that’s rewarding because of the power of self-discipline.
Real love is about exuding joy, continuously learning and forgiveness. Overly selfish and short-sighted people don’t understand the beauty of sharing and receiving whole heartedly in love. It’s a beautiful thing.
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