A sensual massage not only says be mine, but also begs for more. This Valentine’s Day don’t let the failing economy thwart romantic plans for that special someone. Rather, ignite a passionate evening with a sensual massage at home. Follow this affordable recipe for romance and Valentine’s Day will be a date to remember.
- The first step toward a sensual massage is making the time to be alone. Have kids? Get rid of them! Not permanently of course, but find a sitter. Forget the long stem roses and spend money on a babysitter or better yet, swap baby-sitting duties with a friend or relative and save some cash. How about spending time together while the children are in school? Use a vacation day to relight your romance; you’ll both be happy you did.
- Prior to the massage, plan a tasty, frugal menu and shop for the items then cook them together. Think hand-dipped chocolate covered strawberries found at the local supermarket or breakfast crepes.
- Go for a romantic walk and hold hands. Discuss how the sensual massage will happen, who will go first and what your expectations are before heading home. It is important that equal time is given for optimal satisfaction.
- While she changes into luscious lingerie, he can set the tone with soft music, candles, and blankets on the bed or floor if a massage table isn’t an every day convenience. A kitchen table will also work as long as there are pillows and cushions. Warmth and comfort is key for a successful sensual massage.
- Massage oil is best to use rather than baby oil, however adding fragrant, aromatherapy lavender oil to carrier oil such as safflower may a useful alternative to buying massage oil.
- Warm the oil in a bowl of hot water or a baby food warmer. Avoid the microwave as burns may occur.
- Begin the massage according to the mutual agreed upon discussion. It is best to start with the extremities, rather than therapeutic massages that do the opposite and work in, keeping peak arousal areas the focal point. Make sure to massage the back then front. Do not stop because arousal may be intense and continue for the set amount of time. The genitalia should be the last part of the body massaged, which will lead to an intense orgasmic experience.
Long Islanders looking for the above ingredients to make Valentine’s Day exciting with a sensual massage can find the safflower and lavender oils at The Vitamin Shoppe in Valley Stream. Pre-made massage oil is available at Victoria’s Secret in New Hyde Park. Candles and other fragrant lotions and oils are on sale at Bath and Body Works in Garden City. Melting chocolate can be found at Candy Beaucoup in Oceanside. Have a happy and explosive Valentine’s Day.
The above is strictly the sole, professional opinion of the author and not representative of nor affiliated with any advertiser, manufacturer, company or public relations firm. The author is not responsible for any effects, positive or negative from using the above product.
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