When your kids don't appreciate their gifts....

Appreciation:  gratitude; thankful recognition: They showed their appreciation by giving him a gold watch.

As the holidays are here, gifts will be passed out and time will be spent eating and enjoying the company of friends and family.

Gifts and time together are part of celebrating, however learning to appreciate these things is most important. 

Parenting Expert, Dr. Michele Borba, offers parenting advice in teaching your kids the art of appreciation even when they are disappointed with a gift.  

The Art of Teaching Kids to Be Appreciative

1. Rehearse appreciation. Teach your child how to accept gifts graciously by rehearing polite comebacks prior to the event. A few gracious responses might be “Thank you for this. I really appreciate it” or “Thanks. That was nice of you.” Sometimes “Thank you so much!” might be best. Younger kids can practice saying responses with their teddy bears or dolls. But remember, repeated practice is critical to succeed in mastering this skill. Please don’t wait until the night before to start those rehearsals.

2. Help your child imagine the recipient’s feelings. Set up a few pretend sequences and then role play with your child. For instance: “Suppose Aunt Helen is here right now. She spent a lot of time shopping for your gift because she loves you and hopes you’re happy when you open it. Pretend she’s watching you open that package. What can you say and do to let her know you appreciate her effort?”

3. Stress appreciation. Emphasize to your child that he doesn’t have to like a gift, but he must show his appreciation for the thought that went behind the effort. That point will take a lot of little chats and not one long marathon lecture. So start the little reminders now.

Hint: If you’ve rehearsed and there’s still one of those embarrassing kid blunders when the gift-exchange occurs, remember there are always thank you cards.

Read more expert parenting advice and tips from Dr. Michele Borba at www.micheleborba.com.  Her latest book, The Big Book of Parenting Solutions, is one that every parent needs to own.  Order today!

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