Whatever you have experienced up to this point in your life, including what you are presently experiencing is the direct result of thought. Most likely you've been thinking the same types of thoughts your whole life. Ways of thinking, we call them beliefs, are passed down from generation to generation. As children we ask for explanations of why things are the way they are and when an adult, especially a parent, answers us we tend to accept at face value the answer as absolute fact and truth. While we all have the ability to question and reason, most of us, when it comes to what our parents tell us do not, perhaps out of fear of being disrespectful or in the realm of religious teachings fear of displeasing god.
There is a brainwashing process that takes place in most human beings from the time of their birth. The same ideas are presented over and over again as fact and since most people do not question the statements they are simply accepted and become programmed within subconscious mind. Here they continue to reproduce themselves with similar thought which goes forth attracting molecules that match them into what we call physical form.
If you are at a place in your life where what you are experiencing is not what you would really like to experience then you have come to a crossroad. One direction of the cross road leads you to continued frustration were you continue to recreate the same type of experiences for yourself. This is the road that most people travel. It is the easiest road because it is the road of habit. Although this road is filled with experiences that are reflections of all that you've experienced before you continue to travel it because it is the road that you are already familiar with it.
The second direction is a direction of new thinking. It is where you begin to see the direct link between what you think and what you receive. This is the road where you begin to understand as a man thinks in his heart so is he. This road is where you begin asking how can I rather than why me. While the first road is filled with similar experiences day in and day out which never lead to happiness, the second road is where you begin to understand the power of your thoughts and how they are linked with your emotions to create your very own experiences.
It's been said that doing the same thing the same way over and over expecting a different result is a sure sign of insanity. Perhaps it is time for you to ask yourself whether or not you need to begin thinking and acting in a different way in order to experience a different life reality. The beliefs upon which you have built your life your whole existence are the very foundation for creation. In order for that which is created for you to experience to be any different your thoughts must change. You have the ability to change your life transforming it into the exact reflection of what it is you would like to experience. In order to work out the way you wish things to be your thoughts and your emotions must be in vibration alignment with the physical form you wish to experience. While it is not necessary to watch every thought you have it is important that you understand the power of your thought and feelings and how they create experience similar to the thought energy. Being aware of how you think and how you feel takes time and practice, however the rewards are outstanding.
Take a look around you at all that you have experienced and ask yourself what were you thinking before this experience came to you. You will find that your thoughts and your feelings lined up perfectly with the experience itself. In order for you to have different experiences your thoughts and feelings must be different from the ones you've already had. Thinking and feeling the same way will continue to create in its own image, cultivating a new thought and nurturing new emotions will attract to itself molecules of physical reality that match that state.
The choice is always yours. You can continue thinking and feeling and creating as you've always done or by changing the thought and feeling combination transform your life into a new experience. By practicing your new thinking and feeling combination energy combined with the cultivation of new actions, you will create a new experiential reality for yourself.