Men: have you ever wondered what the one spot on a woman was, that when touched, would drive her absolutely wild?
Contrary to popular belief, sometimes it is simpler than one might think.
Women are known to be such complicated creatures, right? Men claim that women drive them wild with their brains, their smile, and even their beautiful batting baby blues. Could there be something so simple as just one place to touch a woman—that would drive them wild?
Getting right to the point: what’s the one place you can touch a woman that will drive her absolutely wild?
It is her heart.
In the romantic drama movie, “Titanic” (directed by James Cameron), you might remember sweet Rose Calvert (played by Kate Winslet) and Jack Dawson (Leonardo DiCaprio) who fell in love while voyaging on the Titanic. The story is seen through the eyes of an elderly Rose (played by Gloria Stuart) who reminisces of her love story with Jack, and her last night on the Titanic—captivating even the crewmen of Treasure Hunters (Bill Paxton, Lewis Abernathy and others), who have just stumbled upon the 1912 wreckage. In reference to the sketching of Rose wearing the “heart of the ocean” diamond heart-shaped necklace discovered in a safe at the bottom of the ocean, Rose reveals a treasured secret to the men: “a woman’s heart is a deep ocean of secrets.”
Although most women probably won’t admit it, and some men may not even realize it, touching a woman’s heart is a difficult task—and requires touching a place within that no amount of money, charm or wisdom can come close to. (Not to mention, it needs to be the right woman.) However, once accomplished, a woman will be devoted to the man who succeeds.
Remember however that with every secret revealed about a woman there is a caveat—if not cared for appropriately, a heart can be shattered into a million pieces.
Diamonds are indeed one of earth’s hardest substances; and very much like a woman and her heart, each is unique (like fingerprints), with many facets (characteristics)—strong and sturdy, yet absolutely beautiful. The irony with this natural beauty is that it can very easily be damaged by another diamond (a man’s heart). So, great care must always be taken.
So how exactly, do you touch a woman’s heart?
There is but one way, and it is not with roses or endless moonlit walks (although traditional romance is always an excellent compliment): it is by opening your own heart—and allowing her to touch yours in return.
Once you've touched a woman's heart, the devotion is unlike anything you've ever known. It could be considered the equivalent of the beginning of a sailing journey on her "ocean of secrets"—your vessel being the only one in her heart. She will take utmost care to ensure your survival.
There are of course many secrets to women—and men; future columns to unveil more of both.
As always, good luck in your dating ventures and for goodness sakes, don’t take life too seriously and have some fun.
“Take away love and our earth is a tomb." —Robert Browning
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