As it pertains to relationships it is not if you cross a person mind. Your significance is determined more so by when you cross a person’s mind. In relationships and even friendships, people delegate people in their life for specific purposes. It sounds crazy that individuals would do this to people who they do not supervise in a work setting. However, this type of behavior does happen.
In life there are people who I call “crisis people.” These people only call when they have a problem. These types of relationships present no substance for you. Primarily these relationships are not beneficial because they could never be reciprocal. Additionally, these types of relationships can be downright draining. Excess baggage is the first red flag to run for in the relationship.
The next type of relationships are the “feel good” people. Perhaps you are known for being the down for whatever type of person. This could entail being the life of the party, being always down sexually with no respect for boundaries, and always being ready to go. Essentially these types of people are known as the people who keep everyone laughing. However, one must ask how does this particular lifestyle adversely affect them in the future. Additionally, one must also ask do the people in their circle have their best intentions at heart.
The ideal group is the “respect people” when dating. The individual you respect is the type of person who you want to take to the family reunion to meet everyone. This is the person whose opinions and feelings you honestly value. The people you respect are the ones you make time for. The person you respect is never the next available option, but instead they are the priority.
In relationships and friendships it is so very important to understand your role. Only associate yourself with people who respect you. Embrace those who have your best intentions at heart. It is also important to love those people who are unchanging. Realistically the life of the party could evolve to the most conservative person. However, those who love you for you are willing to respect those changes.