You've met a guy and you really like him, but what you don't know for sure is if he really likes you, too. Want to know if he's in to you? Check his hands!
I'm not talking about reading palms, but rather, logisitcs. Where are his hands when he's with you?
There are three key things a man will do with his hands to show that he not only thinks you're hot, but that he actually cares about you.
He finds reasons to touch you.
When a guy likes you, he'll find all kinds of reasons to reach out and touch you. It could be as innocent as picking an invisible piece of fluff off your sleeve to playing with the bracelets on your wrist. I once knew a guy who did the bracelet thing. He was such a hottie, and we were sitting across a table from each other at a restaurant having a casual lunch. At the time, we were just friends who shared a class together. While we waited for our order and chatted, he kept reaching over and spinning my bracelet around my wrist. I remember thinking "Why is he touching me?" and "Wow! He's touching me!" Ah, the pre-wisdom days! The most telling touch, however, the one that a blind person can't miss, is when he reaches out to tuck a stray stand of hair behind a woman's ear. If he's doing any of these things, he likes you.
He places his hand on the small of her back when walking anywhere.
When a man is being a gentleman, he might put his hand on a woman's back to help guide her through a crowd, but it's where that hand lands on her back that tells the tale. If he places his hand on her shoulder or upper back, she's a friend. If his hand lands and stays on the small (lower portion) of her back, he's making the claim "she's mine!" The lower back is a very intimate area of a woman's body, so by laying his hand upon it, he's being loud and clear about his intentions.
He holds your face when he kisses you.
A man's hands can go many places when he's kissing a woman, but when they cradle and touch her face, he's speaking volumes about his feelings. Touching a woman's face while kissing her is a sign of tenderness. It says "she's special". This man isn't just feeling lustful. He's saying with hands the words he can't seem to find.
These three key signs happen in a progression from the time the two of you meet. First, finding reasons to touch you. Then, staking his claim by placing his hand upon your lower back, and finally; caressing, touching or cradling your face when he kisses you.
If you've found a fellow who has done any of these things, hold on to him. He's the guy who's in to you!
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In addition to this local column, and her work as a Freelance Journalist in San Antonio, Michele Gwynn is also the National Animal Rights Examiner. Her love of pets began at an early age with a stray cat named Harvey, and a dying field mouse named Tucker. She is a pet parent to four cats, and an animal rights champion to all critters, large and small. Visit her animal rights column here.
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