Mothers have become super moms and fathers have become super busy as well. In the struggle to provide all the necessities and as much luxury as possible parents knock themselves out. Do you too feel the pressure of work is much and the competition is so fierce that there is no-way for you to spend time with your family, kids and loved ones?
The latest survey: Well, you are not the only one who feels so. In a recent survey conducted by ‘The Relationship School of VioletBlues.com’, the psychoanalyst found that more and more parents feel the work pressure and competition is keeping them up from spending quality time with their kids.
Parents’ expressions: One of the participant Mary Mathews, manager at a multinational FMCG and a mother of three expressed that, “Even when I am home, I work until midnight on my laptop. To keep up with my job responsibilities, I am missing out on the memories of my kids’ growth years.”
Jason Murdock, a father of two and a bank employee says, “I manage to find sometime with my children on weekends. During the weekdays, life keeps getting in between my family and me. They have school and extra-curricular activities to keep up with and I have a commitment to provide them with the best I can.”
The experts take: However, the psychoanalyst and psychologist at ‘The relationship school of VioletBlues.com’ feel that with a bit of twist in adjustment of priorities and with a few minor adjustments, parents can spend ample amount of quality time with their kids.
“With facilities and with all the things that money can buy, you can provide them with necessities and luxury. However, you cannot nurture them the required values. Moreover, what we found was that most parents regret that their kids feel unloved and not important to the parent. Parents as they are unable to convey the feeling of love since they are busy providing for the family and children”, says Patrick L, the psychoanalyst and relationship therapist at VioletBlues.com “and a very simple solution to that is to hug you kids often and be vocal and tell you kids “I love you” and it works wonders”.
Patrick L further emphasized that by making a few adjustments with their attitude the parents will be able to see that the buying the latest laptop is not so important for your child as much as you being there for his baseball practice.
It will not only give the family the emotional connect but also moral strength. If you do not want to regret your teenager is simply out of your control, you must learn to be a pert of their lives when they are still young.
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