Valentine's Day tips for the sad and lonely: You don't have to be lonely next year.

Lonely Blue Heart?
Lonely Blue Heart?
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Next years February 14th doesn't have to be a painfully depressing day you spend alone.  Listen to the simple tips to help you find some happiness for next Valentine's day, and possibly more V-days to come.

First, consider what you can change about yourself to attract your future Valentine: 

  • Self make over- New hair cut, new make up tricks, loose a couple pounds?

Next, ask yourself what you are looking for in your future Valentine:

  • What's your dream match -The outgoing and adventurous type, The home body who likes to cuddle, or The middle grounded person?

Last, ask yourself where/how will you meet your future Valentine: 

  • Where will your "once upon a time" start - Online at some web site like Zoosk.com or Match.com, a blind date with a friend of a friend, someone from your "new" volunteer group or church group?

Put all of these tips together, and add a few of your own. Finding someone doesn't have to be painful unless you plan to puck your eyebrows and wax your legs. It can be as simple as changing your point of view on the subject. Stop thinking of how lonely and depressed you are and start thinking of what you can do to achieve your goals of finding Mr/Mrs Valentine.

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, Columbus Health and Happiness Examiner

Rhonda Sullivan a wife and mother of two kids has been in the Healthcare Field for over a decade, and contributed to justanswers.com/nurse many times. Frequently uses Facebook and Myspace. She's a nurse who's had her share of first hand health scares. What better person to advise you on the...

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